Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 2:25 am
Hey Guys and Gals,
I gotta tell ya, Mike the youth minister on CD 2 had the exact same story as me. He was obsessing over whether the girl he was with was "the one", wondering if he was perfect, wondering if she was perfect...
A week into the program I went to the library looking for Lucinda's book From Panic To Power and Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsh. I didn't find either book as they were checked out, ,but what I did find is a book that answered my "why?".
I now know why I sabotage relationships and obsess over them.
GET THIS BOOK: The Intimacy Struggle by Janet Woititz.
It was originally written for people that grew up in a alcoholic family but was revised to include a normal (LOL!) dysfunctional upbringing.
I read this book and all the relationship fears and the descriptions and went, "Oh my God! Thats me!!"
I was stressed out and hopeless after reading it, but only for a moment because I new what it was that was causing my anxiety and I knew that I could FIX MYSELF!!
WHAT A REVELATION!!!
Just knowing why was HUGE!!!
Between that book and the program I really feel like i know what to do now.
GUYS, go get this book if you can't figure out why you keep screwin' up in a relationship.
I'm tellin' you, it's gonna answer ALL of your questions and give you some insights that will make you laugh at your behavior!!!
I gotta tell ya, Mike the youth minister on CD 2 had the exact same story as me. He was obsessing over whether the girl he was with was "the one", wondering if he was perfect, wondering if she was perfect...
A week into the program I went to the library looking for Lucinda's book From Panic To Power and Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsh. I didn't find either book as they were checked out, ,but what I did find is a book that answered my "why?".
I now know why I sabotage relationships and obsess over them.
GET THIS BOOK: The Intimacy Struggle by Janet Woititz.
It was originally written for people that grew up in a alcoholic family but was revised to include a normal (LOL!) dysfunctional upbringing.
I read this book and all the relationship fears and the descriptions and went, "Oh my God! Thats me!!"
I was stressed out and hopeless after reading it, but only for a moment because I new what it was that was causing my anxiety and I knew that I could FIX MYSELF!!
WHAT A REVELATION!!!
Just knowing why was HUGE!!!
Between that book and the program I really feel like i know what to do now.
GUYS, go get this book if you can't figure out why you keep screwin' up in a relationship.
I'm tellin' you, it's gonna answer ALL of your questions and give you some insights that will make you laugh at your behavior!!!