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Thank you all for your prayers. My father in law's prostate cancer is widespread in his bones. He does not hurt though and after a few pints of blood, he is rather spunky! He has Alzheimer's, and never knew me, but my husband asked him if he knew who I was, and he replied no, but he'd sure like to! The smiles of the faces of his family were so wonderful.
In the midst of bad news and uncertainty, their faith shines through and they are glad to have him "back" a little.
Me? I figured out how to help in little ways- watering mom in law's plants and garden, bringing her magazines and snacks for the hospital room, a foot rub for my exhausted husband.
I still don't know the right things to say, but you were all right- being there with a smile, holding a hand and praying is the best thing.
THANKS SO MUCH!

Bev~I am sorry to hear for the news of the prostate cancer but at the same time releaved you and the family are having blessing of comfort. I pray he will stay comfortable as long as possible. What did you find out about the brain? Please listen for God's whispers and keep us updated on his and your condition.

Annette, the brain infection was either bacterial, fungal, or viral. I'm sorry to say that I don't know the difference, but they gave him heavy duty antibiitcs to clear it up. They even mentioned possibly West Nile, but I don't think they tested for that. Honestly, they kinda through in the towel on him and told his wife not to bring him back even is he had pneumonia. They won't treat a leg blood clot because that'd be a better way for him to go according to doc.
But, he's a husband, father, brother, grandpa. He's going to get good care and lots of love until the Lord decides to bring him home.
He's in his own house now surrounded by loved ones and can live for years with this stuff. So we are thankful for each day.