New to this

Tavish · Post by **Tavish** » Sun Jun 28, 2009 1:24 pm

Hello everyone.. My Name is Tavish, Im new to the program & having a hard time getting started. I just have no energy or will power, I bought the program, & Just basically go at my own (slow ) pace. so its hard to "just get started" all i want to do is sleep. Bad.. i know.. the energy drop is the worst for me, I have watched the intro Cd, & im on the first Jump start DVD, ( the yellow one) Volume 1 today... any advice?? I just dont know what to do & i know if i had energy, it would be easier to sit down & watch this & deal with... well me... I sometimes wait for my husband.. but i feel as if he just does not want to participate & i think he could benafit from this as well as me.

kittylover · Post by **kittylover** » Sun Jun 28, 2009 2:29 pm

Hi Tavish and welcome!

First of all, be gentle with yourself. Secondly, persevere even if you stop for a day or two, a week or two, even a month or two. Don't give up because you are worth it!!! I have stalled out on session 8 and redone it then stalled out again because of work and family obligations/responsibilities and yes some avoidance issues. :p The thing is, it's okay because I have learned some basic tools to help me live in the present and know the program is here when I need it. I'm back on track, starting session 9 after being on session 8 for one entire month, BUT I am back on track. Do it for yourself. You deserve it!!

Take care and God bless,
kittylover

Tavish · Post by **Tavish** » Sun Jun 28, 2009 4:21 pm

thank you! it's nice to know that when im feeling like this.. i can find friends to talk to.. makes me feel less alone.

Congrats on your progress as well.. i KNOW that this program will benefit me cause i truly believe in it. & that i gues is the start of everything.. believing...

dubai · Post by **dubai** » Sun Jun 28, 2009 6:04 pm

Hi Tavish
I am new to the program too
I am on my 3rd CD and I am doing so so but I want to get better so I have to stick to the program
I have good days and bad days but now I am leaarning how to deal with them
it is not easy since I am so used to having this feelings all day but I am doing the best I can
hang in there becaause it has to get better
thosand of people got better on this progarm so why can't we?
good luck and keep in touch
Dubai

Tavish · Post by **Tavish** » Mon Jun 29, 2009 12:53 pm

thanks Dubai.. it is hard.. especially since im still just going thru the motions.. well emotions.. lol.. I have a hard time even now trying to let some anger i have go.. & not sure how im going to do it.. but im going to post a new meesege on here & see if anyone can help me with the situation.. its a hard & complicated one, but unless i walk away from my family.. ( that is the only way to truly solve it ) & im not willing to do that.