im new 2 this... and want 2 support others and have some!!

[qutycute]

hi every1... i fairly new 2 this, im on session 3. and i suffer with severe depression n anxiety... i would like 2 try and talk 2 others for support and 2 give support. i know we all need it! and i al;so know its hard 2 deal with, and its nice 2 find people that understand what ur goin through... and how hard depression n anxiety is. and we all r doin this program 2 get better! it would b nice 2 have others 2 talk 2!! and do it with some of u!! im sure it would benefit all of us! and it would b nice 2 have some others do 2 this 2gether... i had such a better message, but it got erased somehow.... lol. well i know its hard sometimes 2 find people in the chatroom, so if any of u want 2 chat privately... u can reach me at qutycute1@yahoo.com... well i hope 2 talk 2 u guys soon!!!

[qutycute]

i cant believe how many people have viewed this n have not replied... n we bein shy, or just dont want the help???? because thats what we r here 4!!! is support 4 1 another.... i hope i find some people who agree n we can all be helpful 2 each other... its not gonna help us 2 just post things, n i knwo people agree and dont reply..... whats the point of that???? we need 2 comfort each other... be understandin of 1 another... or we r not gonna heal faster.... it will b real slow by ourselves!!!! lets lets have some team work in here!!!!!

[KAMO]

Hi my name is Karen. I know exactly how you feel about this. I am new also - sent my first post yesterday and got a few views, but just 1 reply. I am pretty disappointed because I was under the impression that this was an active chat room and that we were here to support each other. There's not much support if you just look at what someone wrote, but don't bother to reply to them. I've seen some with over 100 views and only 1 or 2 replies. What's going on here?

[John Jackson]

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[SoWhatif]

Hi qutycute, and Kamo and JJ. Please Don't feel so neglected

I am guilty and as of late have not posted on the boards or forumns lately. It comes and goes as it is like reading the news papper. I have been on message boards and forums for nearly 15 yrs, things seem to cycle up and down in usage. I also must keep myself reined in or a day or night can just disappear with no production in getting food on the table. Some just flash threw and some read every word. I don't get to a regular keyboard much so trying to make words on a phone is NOT my handy cup of tee. It would be nice to see more disscusion on actions and trials of reactions. It gets abit boring and non usefull when there is a lot of shall I say hi, how ya doing and hope you get better conversations.
I like to crack the nut open and see what is going on type discussions. The kind that gives a rush of could be or what if, moving forward things not the crying in my beer music.

Thanks for caring enough to ask and feel free to throw a dart of two to warm things up.

R

[qutycute]

well hey kamo, sowhatif, n jj... im glad u understand what i mean.. i thought others were waaaay more active on this... thats y i took it upon myself 2 leave my email so u guys could email me, or im me when no1 is on chat!! n i dont understand y ppl havent!! imean theres 1 rfeally kool chick that i do im on my yahoo account n we r doin it 2gether.. the sessions, n problems that we r havin.. n seriously guys... its really helpful!!! ill put it in again... qutycute1@yahoo.com... its really helpful... im on west coast time zone... i live in vegas... im from ny! mayb ill hear from sum of yas... i mean if u wana get better, u need 2 help urself n others.. doin it on ur own.. it helps a lil... but not as much as with others!!!! think about it people!!!!!!!!!

[SoWhatif]

Hi Qutycute, what ya say we get you a dictionary ?, cuz alot of us do not talk in half words. Why do you put your email on a public site? It may be innocent act for socializing, it is not the best thing to do. Why, because there are a lot of freaks that may or will take advantage.

Be safe.
R

[qutycute]

a dictionary?????????? i didnt no this was criticize a person that has faith in this program!!! n this isnt school!!!!!!!!!! if i wanna shorten my words!!!!!!!! i will!!!!!!! if u cant read them dnt read it!!!!!!! if u dnt get it!!!!!!!! im tryin 2 help others n get help... i dnt need some1 say oh get a dictioary..... i didnt no i had 2 type perfect 4 ne1!!! n i dnt!!! i put my email on here, cuz ppl need help, n if im online i m.. n ill chat.. i have had no problems.. n if i did all i gotta do is push the block button.. not difficult!!! n God will keep me safe!! but i think thats really rude 2 tell some1 oh get a dictionary!!!!!! whats it 2 u the way i spell????? im not typin a report, im tryin 2 give myself less work!!!!!!!! ever hear of short hand... well here it is!!!!!! i mean really!!!!!!!!!! my spellin ur goin 2 criticize!! thats sooo dumb!! we r all on this site 4 help!!! not put downs.. n i talk 2 some1 through my email.. we do our sessions 2gether cuz its hard 2 find others on here at the same time, especially on the chat!!!!!!!!! im sry u have a problem wit the way i spell!!!!! but thats not what we r here 4!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SoWhatif]

Qutycute,
Have you ever given thought that what may be easier or a short cut for you may make it much harder or cumbersome for others? Is that the way it was taught in school? I used the word dictionary allthough it would appear you can spell ok. Life is not about shortcuts or getting things easy. There may lay a reason for anxiousness. I do not mean to be rude or negative so no need to get defensive. There are times when shortcuts or the easy way may be of use. I don't think this is the place. Also the attitude goes along way in describing ones mental state and reveals reasons for troubleing habits and traits.

Have a good one and maybe get out of the city for abit and enjoy some fresh oxygen.

R

[qutycute]

thats great!! every1 has an opinion... n i was taught lots in school. n i m in college... i havent heard ne1 else say nething about my spelling, i m here 2 give support n get support... i dont think people care how i spell i think they care about what i say!!! n how i say it. 2 make them feel better n help myself get better!!! im not in a spellin contest. n the defensiveness is there cuz ur dam right im gonna defend myself when some1 comes at me 4 something as stupid as my spelling!!!!!!!! like i said if ya cant read it... which i dnt think is hard.... then dnt read it!!! n in this program there r short cuts.. me gettin straight 2 the point 2 help myself n others... instead of makin it in bigger words stretchin it out... im getin straight 2 the point n i have been havin great responses, cuz im here 2 help... ya dnt like my spellin dnt read it!!!! i never thought i would b havin a convo on here about my spellin instead of gettin 2 the point about all of our problems, n what we all deal with on a day 2 day basis!!!!!


have a great day!!!!!!!!