How Do You Deal with Disappointment, Frustration, Feeling Down, Minimal Expectations

cream cheese · Post by **cream cheese** » Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:00 pm

Hey Charlie Brown...I think I am caught in your and Ms. T bones crossfire of emails....they are coming to me for some reason but its not in regard to my posts....any idea what happened? I let Ms. T bones know.....Maybe she has my name in Forward to all...and types in names
Hope you are feeling much better....dont give up.....dont dont dont...we are like one mind here.....all of us....its a powerful energy that can help us all....I feel it already and I have only gone through the introduction tape.!!! creamcheese

Charlie Brown · Post by **Charlie Brown** » Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:06 am

Originally posted by cream cheese:
Hey Charlie Brown...I think I am caught in your and Ms. T bones crossfire of emails....they are coming to me for some reason but its not in regard to my posts....any idea what happened? I let Ms. T bones know.....Maybe she has my name in Forward to all...and types in names
Hope you are feeling much better....dont give up.....dont dont dont...we are like one mind here.....all of us....its a powerful energy that can help us all....I feel it already and I have only gone through the introduction tape.!!! creamcheese

Hi ya, cream cheese.

Sorry about the crossfire. Not sure what you mean by "emails." Do you mean these postings? Hmmm, not sure. The only thing I can think of besides the Forward thing (which I've never used and don't have any idea what/where it is), is contact the forum administrator.

Thanks for the "don't give up" well wishes.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:16 am

Good Morning cream cheese,
I honestly don't have any idea what you are talking about here...God knows that I don't...

Charlie has only sent me one PM and that was a while back, and it was not a "crossfire"...

I am very confused on this one!!! I highly "suggest" that you get in contact with the forum administer!!!

I am soooo sorry that this "very" strange thing is happening to you!!!

I wish I could just see one of those PMs, or emails, or whatever you are talking about, since I have no idea whatsoever!!!

Charlie and I have never emailed each other!!! We do not have each others email addresses!!!

I pray that "whatever" is happening here, gets cleared up "very soon"...

I can only begin to "imagine" how "distressing" this is to you!!!

I must say that nothing like this has ever happened to me, so I am very confused

I think I would "definitely" get into contact with someone concerning this matter, so they can "clear" up whatever it is, that is happening here!!!

I pray you have a beautiful day filled with much sunshine, joy and laughter!!! Love, Cloie

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:45 am

BTW: Cream cheese, I have "no idea" whatsoever what you are talking about when you said "forward" either, since I don't have your email address either!!!

This is very "upsetting" and again...Whatever is going on here needs to be "reported immediately"...

Thanks again for hearing me out!!! I pray God blesses you beyond human understanding in "figuring" out whatever it is, that is "happening" here, since I am just as "shocked" as you, and I am sure it is "safe" to say that Charlie is too!!!

Have a beautiful day, my dear friend...Love, Cloie

manofmusic · Post by **manofmusic** » Fri Mar 12, 2010 10:19 am

Ms T Bones ~

I printed out the advice you gave Chuck. I have it stuck to my fridge. I read it every chance I get.

Chuck ~

How have things been going the past few days ? Any ideas for the near future ?

Charlie Brown · Post by **Charlie Brown** » Fri Mar 12, 2010 2:12 pm

Originally posted by manofmusic:
Ms T Bones ~

I printed out the advice you gave Chuck. I have it stuck to my fridge. I read it every chance I get.

Chuck ~

How have things been going the past few days ? Any ideas for the near future ?

Thanks so much for asking. Actually this past week I have been doing good. I would attribute it to Ms. T Bone's great advice, The Man Upstairs, and also things I learned this week.

I read a story about former sport stars who had millions and lost it, either thorough bad business dealings or just greed. This helped me deal with my financial regret of never saving. I think it is worse to have fortune and lose it then to have never saved and deal with its fallout.

Wednesday I went to a sales job fair. (I have a background in sales.) I was blown away when one of the fair coordinators mentioned that one pharmaceutical sales job got between 2000 and 2500 resumes

! This helped me not to feel bad when I don't a response to my application.

It's funny you ask me what my future plans are because I was just relaying them to my wife. I have to put my business project on hold until I get a job. As far as that's concerned, I have another sales fair next week and also sent out more resumes today. After that, I will put aside sales as a job option. I also have office work background and will try for a office temp gig. These many times lead to a full-time job with the company you are temping with. That happened to me several years ago.

Ms. T Bones' advise really helped. I feel much less disappointed, frustrated, and feeling down. My minimal expectations, I have to admit, did cushion the blow from a couple of refusals from companies I interviewed with.

Thanks again, man.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:32 am

Cloie
thanks for that list. It's really full of good
practical and tangable things to do in our recovery of panic and or depression. Which is why we are all here right? Smiler
I think I am going to print those out so I can
refer back to them pretty easily.
Thanks again!
Jill~

Hey Jill, this absolutely "boggles" my mind!!! I had no idea this one would be of help to you, also!!!

I sure am "thankful" though...I love you dearly my dear sister and friend...Cloie

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:34 am

Ms T Bones ~

I printed out the advice you gave Chuck. I have it stuck to my fridge. I read it every chance I get.

Hi manofmusic,
I can't imagine your fridge having any room left on it..Tee Hee!!!

I am also very "thankful" if this article helped you in some way...

God bless you manofmusic...Cloie

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:38 am

Good Afternoon Charlie

,
I am sooooo thankful that you are feeling better!!! That is such wonderful news

!!!

I pray God blesses you beyond human understanding...Cloie

Charlie Brown · Post by **Charlie Brown** » Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:41 pm

Originally posted by Ms. T Bones:
Good Afternoon Charlie ,
I am sooooo thankful that you are feeling better!!! That is such wonderful news !!!

I pray God blesses you beyond human understanding...Cloie

Thanks, Cloie. I have also been understanding and dealing with another personal issue that's non-anxiety and depression.

I am about to Zzzz. Tomorrow morning I will be at sales jobs fair.

God bless you.