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LOOKING FOR PROGRAM BUDDY
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2025 4:29 pm
by MICHJON2025
(I’M NOT SHOUTING—I HAVE VISION ISSUES.) I’M JUST BEGINNING THE PROGRAM AND WOULD LIKE TO CONNECT WITH SOMEONE WHO IS DOING THE SAME. I’M A WOMAN IN HER 60s.
Re: LOOKING FOR PROGRAM BUDDY
Posted: Sat Sep 06, 2025 10:32 am
by MICHJON2025
I'M NEW AND TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO USE THIS FORUM. I WANTED TO SHARE ABOUT MY JOURNEY DOING EACH LESSON. I WILL START HERE...
LESSON 1-- THOUGHTS AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS
- BOUGHT AN OLDER VERSION OF THE PROGRAM FROM EBAY BECAUSE THE NEW VERSION FEATURES PRINT THAT IS TOO SMALL FOR ME TO READ. THE OLD PROGRAM HAS A WONDERFULLY BIG WORKBOOK AND BLUE FLASHCARDS WITH LARGE, BOLD PRINT. I FOUND QUITE A NICE DEAL ON EBAY--A NEVER USED PROGRAM, STILL IN THE ORGINAL MAILING BOX FOR A VERY REASONABLE PRICE!
- BEGAN AN ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION PROGRESS JOURNAL.
- EXERCISED (11 DAYS OUT OF 14). I HAVE BOTH NEUROLOGICAL AND PHYSICAL ISSUES THAT PRODUCE SEVERE CHRONIC PAIN AND FATIGUE. MY EXERCISE PROGRAM COMBINES PHYSICAL THERAPY EXERCISES AND YOGA. IT HELPS KEEP ME MOBILE AND ACTUALLY REDUCES THE PAIN.
- PRACTICING MINDFUL DEEP, SLOW BELLY BREATHS.
- REGULARLY LISTENING TO THE RELAXATION CD. SINCE I HAVE FIBROMYALGIA, TENSING MY MUSCLES MAKES THE PAIN WORSE. INSTEAD OF TENSING, I STRETCH MY DIFFERENT BODY AREAS WHILE DOING THE SLOW, DEEP BELLY BREATHS. IT WORKS FOR ME.
- LISTENING TO POSITIVE CDS AND DVDS. FOR EXAMPLE, I DUG OUT MY OLD LOUISE HAY "YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE" DVD, CDS AND BOOKS. I DON'T AGREE WITH EVERYTHING LOUISE HAY SAYS, BUT I TAKE WHAT I CAN USE AND LEAVE THE REST. EVEN MS. HAY SUGGESTS WE DO THIS. I'VE ALSO BEEN WATCHING MY DVDS ABOUT MIRACLES AND ANGELS ("TWICE IN A LIFETIME," "TOUCHED BY AN ANGEL,"IT'S A MIRACLE WITH RICHARD THOMAS,"HIGHWAY TO HEAVEN... "
- GETTING BACK TO MY DAILY SPIRITUAL PRACTICE. I'M CATHOLIC, SO I BEGAN SAYING MY ROSARY AGAIN, WATCHING INTERNET MASS AND DIVINE OFFICE AND I'M PRACTICING LIVING IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD. I'M A HOMEBOUND, DISABLED SENIOR WHO LIVES ALONE. ALL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY ARE NO LONGER HERE. HAVING A SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION IS IMPERATIVE FOR ME TO MANAGE DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY.
- RECOGNIZING ANXIOUS AND NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND REPLACING THEM WITH THE REALITY AND MIND-STRENGTHENING POSITIVE THOUGHTS.
- REDUCING CAFFEINE INTAKE, WHICH IS GREEN TEA. I'M NOW HAVING ONE CUP REGULAR AND ONE CUP DECAFFEINATED INSTEAD OF 2 CUPS OF CAFFEINATED GREEN TEA.
- MY GETTING ANXIOUS AND UPSET IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE THIS SITUATION.
- I CAN'T CHANGE THIS SITUATION OR THE BEHAVIOR OF OTHERS, BUT I CAN CHANGE HOW I REACT BY FIRST CHANGING MY THOUGHTS.


Re: LOOKING FOR PROGRAM BUDDY
Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2025 8:58 am
by coachchris
Welcome Michjon, we are so glad you’re here!
How are you doing so far? What’s been the most helpful?
Re: LOOKING FOR PROGRAM BUDDY
Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2025 10:41 am
by MICHJON2025
HELLO CHRIS,
THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING TO MY POST! (I'M NOT SHOUTING--I HAVE VISION ISSUES.)
I WAS READY TO DELETE MY ACCOUNT BECAUSE I WASN'T RECEVING ANY RESPONSES, BUT NOW I WON'T.
I AM TAKING MY TIME WITH THE PROGRAM.
INSTEAD OF DOING ONE SESSION A WEEK, I'M DOING ONE SESSION OVER TWO WEEKS.
I AM ALSO DOING LUCINDA'S "THE SOLUTION" PROGRAM--AGAIN, STRETCHING IT OUT, TAKING THE TIME TO REALLY PROCESS AND IMPLEMENT THE TOOLS OFFERED.
I FOUND A COUNSELOR WHO IS WILLING TO DO ZOOM SESSIONS. I'VE BEEN GOING OVER THE TOOLS IN LESSONS 1 AND 2 WITH HER.
I AM HOMEBOUND, DISABLED AND ALONE. I AM A SENIOR WOMAN. I LIVE IN A LOW-INCOME SENIOR BUILDING IN A HIGHLY URBAN AREA WHICH HAS A HIGH-CRIME RATE. I CANNOT MOVE UNTIL I GET MY MIND, BODY, SPIRIT AND FINANCES IN A BETTER PLACE. IT IS A STRESSFUL EXISTENCE.
I'M WORKING ON MANAGING THE DESPAIR, ANXIETY, PAIN AND FATIGUE SO I CAN ACHIEVEE FUTURE GOALS.
I'VE STARTING TO BE MINDFUL OF MY NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND ANXIOUS THOUGHTS.
I'M TRYING TO DETERMINE WHICH THOUGHTS ARE BASED IN REALITY AND WHICH ARE NOT.
PRAYER, RELAXATION AND MEDITATION SEEM TO BE THE FOUNDATION OF MY RECOVERY.
I DO WISH I COULD CONNECT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN--PERHAPS A SENIOR LIKE ME--SOMEONE TO SHARE THE JOURNEY THROUGH THIS PROGRAM AND OFFER MUTUAL SUPPORT.
THANKS AGAIN CHRIS FOR ASKING HOW I'M DOING. I DO APPRECIATE IT! GOD BLESS YOU.