Hi Doozan,
We are practically neighbors. I had surgery of my L5, and while my pain never really got better. I can't take any of the nsaids, because of contra-indication with my blood pressure medication. They give me racing heart and chest pains. BTW, my l4, and l3 were also herniated, just not as bad. I also have arthritis throughout my spine.
Each person's tolerance for pain is different, and I am enduring by praising God and praying whenever the pain gets too far out of control. They also tried post operative epidural shots, and they didn't do a thing for me. The options are limited for me, but I thank joyrn for bringing out this thing about nerve stimulator.
The operation, it was the one they shaved the disc, though not successful at eliminating my pain, (now it is pretty much bone on bone) was necessary because it did stop any further nerve damage to my spinal cord that did not allow my legs to work right. I can get around, but pain wise, I can't tolerate trips greater than 45 minutes. So don't be expecting me over for dinner anytime soon.
My surgery (done by Virginia Spine Institute) was postponed until my blood pressure was brought under control, and the damage got worse by the time I could be cleared for the operation.
Before I got the operation, I went in for the epidural. However, they refused to treat me because my b/p was 217/147 which set me back, and the pain could have been a factor for the higher b/p.
I can't say if the operation would have gone alright, because things may have gotten complicated post surgery, because I took a fall when my legs seemed to stop working and I fell like a great oak; flat on my face.
If you need an operation, I would not go for the fusion, but exhaust pain management treatment and don't rule out chiropractic and or acupuncture treatment. I think the acupuncture was most effective for me.
I am totally disabled and this is a horrible situation, but there is not much I can do about it. It is what it is. I praise God that I am still able to walk. I count all of my blessings, and I have a much keener appreciation for many things that I either ignored or took for granted.
Depression, panic, anxiety, or pity parties are not of any concern to me. What for? Will whining and self pity make me feel better? No! Will having a panic attack because I can't run a 100 meters in 11 seconds, or run a mile just under 4 minutes, do me any good? No! So get on with what life you are able to enjoy, and accentuate the positive.
I have forsaken moaning or complaining about any thing to do with pain least I be told to die more quietly. That right folks, I live in a NO WHINING ZONE, and will just have to find a way, with God's help, to make the most of every moment of the life I do have! I have chosen to let the Lord turn my mourning into dancing, and yeah I can still stumble along even if just for a few moments.