Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 10:34 am
I really wanna change this about me-
Whenever I really like a guy, I get depressed. And the reason is because I fall for them really hard and my life revolves around them and all my happiness revolves around them. Whenever I'm having a bad day, I think hey, that boy is there to make me happy. But in the back of my mind, I'm thinking, what if he's not around forever? What if he leaves? Then I'll be lonely. I have friends and a great family, but for some reason, I get so attached to a guy when I like them that that's all that makes me completely happy, and I see that as relatively unhealthy. I also get immense anxiety when I'm away from them for a period of time and depressed. How can I change this, and be happy on my own, in my own life?
Whenever I really like a guy, I get depressed. And the reason is because I fall for them really hard and my life revolves around them and all my happiness revolves around them. Whenever I'm having a bad day, I think hey, that boy is there to make me happy. But in the back of my mind, I'm thinking, what if he's not around forever? What if he leaves? Then I'll be lonely. I have friends and a great family, but for some reason, I get so attached to a guy when I like them that that's all that makes me completely happy, and I see that as relatively unhealthy. I also get immense anxiety when I'm away from them for a period of time and depressed. How can I change this, and be happy on my own, in my own life?