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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 3:14 am
by DebDeb
There are certain people who complain and are loud
and boisterous that I have to deal with every day
at work- How do I tune them out? I don't like drama and these people always start conflict.
Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:50 am
by Guest
That's a very difficult thing to do. I have found that I just intentionally limit my contact, and if they do start up their annoying ways, I tell myself it's not worth getting worked up over. I let them have their fit and go on with my day. It's their problem.
Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:57 am
by Guest
Thanks for the advice; I will try to ignore it
Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:58 am
by Guest
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DebDeb Posted February 08, 2008 07:14 AM
There are certain people who complain and are loud
and boisterous that I have to deal with every day
at work- How do I tune them out?
Sometimes I find if I am REAL positive it annoys them. I then find humor in this, and I think it gives me control.
Just a thought
Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:03 am
by Guest
Great Idea!!
Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 8:34 am
by Guest
Negaive people in your life will definitely make your anxiety worse!!!!!!! My advise to you as I try to do is eliminate negative people from your life. I will make you feel so much better. It is hard sometimes though

Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 8:33 pm
by Guest
There is a lot of good advise here that I just read. I sometimes will even put earplugs in. Don't even look at them, ignore them, they are looking for attention, and a conflict, don't take the bait by responding, and if you have to, be positive. Proverbs 14:7 Go from the presence of a foolish man, when thou perceivest not in him the lips of knowledge.
Glass