Stress Center Peer Support

I am obsessing lately over trying to figure out what to do with my current relationship. This is our 2nd time trying to make it work after an 8 month breakup. We'll get along really good for a while and then lately we had 2 fights over the weekend. I feel pressure because I'm 34 and want to get married and have kids some day and feel unsure if my boyfriend is the right man for me and I'm pressuring myself to know and figure this out. Its like my mind keeps spinning thinking about it every day. He's a good guy but we have our moments and I'm not sure if I'm "in love" per say but we've only been back together for a couple months. I have a great time with him alot but I still feel confused. How can I just relax or figure this out? I'm experiencing a lot of anxiety over it lately

I don't usually recommend this, but I wonder if you thought of seeing a relationships therapist. Not to work out a relationship, but to work it out whether you are both a good match. It is as unfair to the other person as it is to ourselves to force a mismatch. No simple answer here, but to avoid messing up two lives, do give this one some thought, and perhaps, some therapy insight.