anxious from wife's past

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Recently I get anxiety from thinking about my wife's past. She was in her mid 30's when we got married and of course did nothing wrong. She is 100 percent loyal and dedicated to me. She actually wants to forget her past since she had some issues with abusive boyfriends. She never intends to hurt me and usually doesn't bring them up by name. However, I had a trigger point the other day when she mentioned a concert that she went to several years ago with a date. I know this is illogical. I listen to the cd's and my therapist. Does anyone else have this issue?

thanks