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Hello everyone,
A person is about to turn 50. This person looks back at his life and sees a lot of ruined relationships with family members, friends and passed employers. This person realizes that it was one thing that caused these destroyed relationships to occur, and that was HIS ANGER! His ANGER and his ANGER alone caused all of this destruction!

As a result, this person is vowing to not lose his temper with people anymore. It's just not worth it. He is learning to let things go that once angered him. He is amazed at how none destructive a life without anger can be.

How does this person move forward in his new non angry life while realizing there are ruined relationships behind him that will probably never be repaired do to his anger?

One more thing. I realize I move forward as a calm person who does not get angry, not out of weakness,or being timid as to not cause a fight, but out of strength and understanding....

Hi King Peace ,
Sometimes, it takes a very long time to learn "valuable" lessons, but it is soooooo worth it!!!

I am soooo thankful that you have come to the realization that life is much too short to remain angry at others!!!

I loved your story!!! Thank you soooo much for sharing!!! I am sure it will help many others, whom are struggling with "anger" issues!!!

Have a great day!!!

Thank you. I am trying to be mature for once in my life... this means understanding that my anger has caused damage that most likely can't be undone... I have to move forward and become wise from the ruins left behind me. I suppose reconciliation is always possible, but it would take apologies and forgiveness from all sides. That is very hard to do. So I will attempt to recommit my life to God (if He will have me), and become a blessing to others. My anger has caused a lot of damage and basically ruined my life. It's time to put it down and live in peace.