Stress Center Peer Support

Hi Everyone,
I really need to just let this out in order to forgive and move past this person's nastyness to me. I will try to be as brief as possible so please bare with me. This is an important part of what brought my anxiety and depression back with a vengence.
I took a PT job last year, against my gut feeling after talking to this woman..but needed some money and felt getting out away from the house would be good. So I took it.
Not a great enviroment at all,some miserable people..anyway tried to overlook it and learn my job. The woman I was backing up and her (teen daughter who was so miserable and rude) began saying ignorant things, teen yelling at me in front of everyone, Mother allowing it, Mother saying snide uncalled for remarks, very belittleing, short term memory problems that made her forget what she has given me to work on and would accuse me of lying..a few times, she was a gossip, had nothing nice to say about anyone, had to know everyones business or it drove her crazy, did sly, sneaky things against the rules and against people including me, a back stabber, got her self worth by hurting others, loved to brag about herself and what a great person she was, (it seemed she was trying to convince herself of that fact constantly),she uses her job to get personal info on people like me and others, as it is part of her having to know everything about others lives, raved about how she went to 2 churches every week, I'm a Christian but was raised to believe that living life in the name of THE LORD is meant to be more than attending a church 1 day a week, it's to be a good person 7 days a week. Anyways there is so many more things that were said and done but I feel anyone who reads this gets a general idea of how she impacted my life. My husband witnessed most of this and kept telling me she was crazy and to just quit. He hated going to that place as well but he was my helper. Well I finally had enough, listened to my husband and quit. She has done vendictive, sly, sneaky things to this day. I feel like she is stalking me, I have been told to file a complaint against her with the police ( by a police officer ) now retired. i have not yet decided to do this, am still pondering it over at this time but it may be the only way to stop her.

That's my vent...sorry it is so long, but really I could write a whole book on her.

So now that this is done I am going to say some prayers for God to assist me in forgiving her tresspasses on my life.

Please wish me luck on this one!!!
It's the toughest one yet.

Thanks for reading and for prayers.

I also would like any comments on this issue if anyone has been through anything similar in their life. Thanks

Hi Monty's Mum, So sorry to hear about your problems with this woman who sounds terrible. She is really not worth your worrying or thinking about but I know that is easier said than done. I think she must have lots of problems of her own! I do hope you can get over this and just let it go, you are much too nice to be exposed to this sort of treatment. I want to thank you so much for your message to me last night, it meant a lot, and actually I had the best night's sleep I've had in ages! I think I did send you an e-mail, did you receive it? My phone number is 416-488-4389 if you feel like calling me. I wanted to send you a private message but am still having trouble getting around the system and didn't seem to be able to do it this time. Perhaps you could help me out with this?? Looking forward to hearing from you. My e-mail address is joyjenkins@rogers.com just in case you feel like e-mailing me. Do try really hard to put this nasty experience out of your mind, I know it's very hard but well worth it if you can do it. She is just not worthy of your attention.
Bye for now, Joy

Hi. I don't think you intended us to reply here, but if I may say this one thing: There are some people like those women who are so lost, it seems they will never find their way back to humanity. Be so glad you are not related to them! And I hope the stalking situation resolves. Sometimes a nice brief letter to the stalker from your attorney, with a copy sent to local law enforcement, gets attention. Best of luck. Regards, Pecos

I've only typed to you for a day, but I'm proud of you that you posted this. It's important for people to know they aren't alone.

"One day at a time."

I am here for U. U have been here for me. U stated in the beginning of this post that U need to vent to forgive and move past tis person's nastyness. Move past it now. Dont linger and let this person get to U. She knows not what a beautiful person U are. U are strong. Why people do this is beyond anything one knows. Yes it isnt right, Do what U have to do and go on with your life.She is saying all this for attention. People know what she is doing. Attention is what she wants.. dont give it too her. Dont give her the satisfaction of letting her bring u down. That is what she wants. Be strong. I know U really know all this. we love U for the person U are. Hugs ..
Nancy

Nancy, your advice is wise beyond wisdom!
Yeah, leave that person in the dust while you zoom into better days and a better life.

Just wanted to say Thankyou to everyone for their replies and kind words.

It's much appreciated.

Nancy I'm so proud of YOU!!
You go girl.

God Bless And Keep You Strong!!

i feel horrible for you that some terrible woman is doing that to you do not let her do this people who belittle others do it because they are weak and have no self confidence they try to break others down because it makes them feel better she sees you as a strong person and that scares her i glad that you vented and got it out of your system you deserve better and im glad that you quit you know what they say what comes around goes around and believe me she will get hers stay strong and positive