Changes, How do we make them?

[Paisleegreen]

Oh, that's funny, J!

[tina martin]

Overslept like Rip Van Winkle. Must be that night shift I've been working with you. J, the Robbies are exploring nesting possibilities, or fellas are trying to impress the ladies. Watch out, it's a big responsibility..

Hope you are well rested ready for a nice weekend.

[Loveslife]

Julie sent me this song today. We are both crying. Thank you R. Thank you so, so much.

http://youtu.be/WHbQjLc7GXc

[Loveslife]

".....................Don't worry mother, it'll be alright
And don't worry sister, say your prayers and sleep tight
It'll be fine lover of mine
It'll be just fine
Lend your voices only to sounds of freedom
No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from
Fill your lives with love and bravery
And you shall lead a live uncommon

I've heard your anguish
I've heard your hearts cry out
You are tired, You are weary, but never say that you are worn out

set down your chains, until only faith remains
Set down your chains
And lend your voices only to sounds of freedom

No longer lend your strength to that
which you wish to be free from

Fill your life with love and bravery
And you shall lead a life uncommon..............."


Imagine. My daughter sent me those lyrics. Amazing.

Cheers.

[Loveslife]

Paislee,

I love the advise that Tina is giving you on all threads. Take the control back in your home. I also love what you are writing about your DH. He sounds like a dear man. I want to post more to you but I'm still feeling somewhat confused by some of your posts, with all of the different people. Did the widow woman leave your home? I feel a little out of the loop, but that is my fault, not yours.

Love,
J.

[tina martin]

Such glorious lyrics. What a joy. Thank you for printing them.

You know, J, I had issues with my daughter. Miraculously I allowed her to educate me. And when the truths are out, all dimensions of love are possible.

[SoWhatif]

J. Your welcome and a great big thanks for being You. I must admit I scare myself sometimes when upsetting the Apple cart. Others have become speechless, some take their toys and go home. Some get really iratated.
Some ban me, It is all worth the effort when it comes to the truth, love and a fair fight.

You Lady's, Tina, Paislee and especally J. bring a tear to my eyes and have helped me more than any words I can say.

[Paisleegreen]

Hi J, that was a very pretty and profound song! That is neat that it was your daughter that sent it to you.
As for the widow lady, we have helped her move out of her big and expensive home. She could no longer afford due to her husband's death and no life insurance, plus his huge salary that came from being a gifted commercial architect. But she was already separated from him when he took his life and she is lucky that she he didn't her her with him as he was texting her during his last hours of ranting and despair.

So she doesn't have a good memory at all about his death and the things he text her become he took his life. So she is lucky she did not go over to the house sooner or she might have been another statistic.

Anyway, my family, DS and his young adult friends have helped to move her out of the house that the bank now owns. We've moved her into one of our houses we have that was empty except for being used for our business. So she is free of the memories and the responsibility of maintaining a 5 acre property and her horses. She is closer to us by a few miles as well as closer to stores and freeway access and civilization, and yet she is in a quite area with some peace, but not isolated from people.

She is able to see one of my family members at least once a day or less as we pop over to do some simple business activities. And there are some neighbors that are close by but not bothersome as the property is spacious. Not as spacious as the 5 acre neighborhood she came from which was quite isolating.

She feels she is in Heaven and is doing much better and is healing from her pain and sorrow. No more banks to remind her that she owes money, nor the reminder of what happened in the her old house. She still has a ways to go and is working on selling a lot of her furnishings and things she no longer needs to live a simple life for now and gradually get up enough strength to be able to hold a job. Paislee

[SoWhatif]

Changes, some days I just walk away, thinking wtf is in their head. It's no one here, it is someone I see regularly.
This place keeps me sane.....

[Loveslife]

At last!!
I now am able to offer R. Advise.

You cannot change what others think, only how you think, and how you react. ( but, do you see? You already know this. )

Love,
J.