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I always knew I was sensitive. This confirms it. Often, it bothered my I was so sensitive. After reading this, I longer feel that way. In fact, I am kind of proud.
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Congrats on the epiphany!Originally posted by Juno:
That's a very interesting article. Not sure if I'm convinced though. I would have to read more about it. I defeinitely think I am HSP, but it doesn't seem to explain all of my behavior though. Does that mean our brains work differently?
My epiphany came when I learned about Myers-Briggs personality type. Being ENFJ and reading the descriptions of that really blew my mind. It was like seeing myself in a mirror. And figuring out everyone else's type easily showed me who I should avoid. That's how I met my boyfriend of 3 years, who I live with. Perfect match. We did not meet through a dating web site though. I figured out his type through dating him, but the personality theory just guided me so I knew what to look for. That is also how Match.com and other personality based web sites work. So how does HSP affect personality? Interesting...
Charlie Brown--I'm glad you were able to work on your problems with bullies. My late sone was always a target for bullies and he suffered from low self esteem and depression. But you wouldn't know it as the classic forms, because he would self-medicate through exercise or activity, he did have ADHD, so that would be part of the reasons for the activity, but then I think it was the cause of the bullying.When I was younger, I was an easy target for bullies, and was picked on alot. After Columbine and other similar incidents, I thank God I never ended up like those students. In my 20s I became more street-wise and later self-confident. While I have 98-99% of the HSP traits, I have no problem being an extrovert, and defending myself verbally and physically. I would have no quams about telling someone off, and not think twice about it. In fact, I have had worked on reignig in being sarcastic and a big mouth.
I am heart-broken at your lossOriginally posted by Paisleegreen:Charlie Brown--I'm glad you were able to work on your problems with bullies. My late sone was always a target for bullies and he suffered from low self esteem and depression. But you wouldn't know it as the classic forms, because he would self-medicate through exercise or activity, he did have ADHD, so that would be part of the reasons for the activity, but then I think it was the cause of the bullying.When I was younger, I was an easy target for bullies, and was picked on alot. After Columbine and other similar incidents, I thank God I never ended up like those students. In my 20s I became more street-wise and later self-confident. While I have 98-99% of the HSP traits, I have no problem being an extrovert, and defending myself verbally and physically. I would have no quams about telling someone off, and not think twice about it. In fact, I have had worked on reignig in being sarcastic and a big mouth.
He was able to stand up for himself a month prior to his death, only to have a school administrator embarrass and humiliate him in front of his peers so much so that he did jump off a cliff.
I have another child that is very sensitive to the way his socks feel on his feet, mainly the seam at the toe as to be just right. They say this is a sign of highly intelligent children. Their sensitivity to things like this, he had other sensitivities as well.