Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 4:40 pm
Well, my one coworker is a gentleman about 10 years my senior who constantly checked me out and flirted with me. Last week, he started finding ways to conveinently touch my wrist and etc. Well, I reached my breaking point when he came up behind me and rubbed my shoulders. Now, I am the type to completely freeze in that situation, and I did this time too, but instead of just letting it slide I went to Human Resources. They asked if they should say something or if I wanted to, and I took a big gulp and said I should do it. Once I did that, I got the WORST anxiety (heart thumping, clammy hands, etc....just worrying about the upcoming confrontation. I asked him to come to my office and told him how I was feeling, and it really wasnt as bad as I had worried it would be! Im so proud of myself for doing that, and hopefully can graduate to saying something right when the incident happens.
