Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:30 pm
Okay so I woke up okay, but then I started thinking. OH NO! not a good thing. It was warmer today and my husband has been spending more time around the house helping out, and he started to cook spaghetti. I got on the phone with my mother. We started talking about pictures I sent my parents that I had taken at Christmas. She stated that she forgot about my daughter's boyfriend and that he was of a different color. Also told me my dad had a fit.
Whatever I brushed it off. THen she told me that my sister, who is also down south with my parents, did not like him. I stated that she didn't know him. My mom stated that oh she heard some things. I got off the phone pretty quickly after that but my stomach started to hurt. I started thinking and thinking and thinking some more. Then my husband took a nap before work, and I was watching the sauce. I took a shower and he got up and told me I ruined the sauce. I told him I already knew the bottom was burned a little but it is not ruined. He said yes it is ruined. I did not say anything else, but my stomach did the flip flop again and I my wheels started to turn. Why did he have to put me down, why so negative. I bet he still didn't listen to the support tape I asked him to listen to before Christmas. Plus the wheels were turning about my mom & my daughter's boyfriend. Maybe he isn't such a nice guy. What do we really know about him after all. Lot's of things running through the brain. Then I said STOP!!! I made some tea and put on the relaxation tape. No coffee today and no chocolate. GOOD FOR ME!! only decaf green tea. So I felt much better. Then I got to work and the stomach flip flop again. I work at a call center and some of it is customer's calling in but some we have to call them and I hate that part as it give me anxiety as the customer's don't like to be called at home and I think it is me that they are upset with. Anyway I got through that part of the day and heard another agent on a call with an irate customer. The cusomter was swearing and very upset. The agent was yelling back and hung up on the customer. It went to 3 other people before it got to me, and when I got it, I remembered the assertive and not aggressive tape. I kept very calm let her scream and kept asking her for her order number to look up her order. She finally calmed down and gave it to me and as I was looking it up she continued to scream but I paid no attention. I asked her security question 3 times before she calmed down enough to give it to me. I showed her respect and stayed calm and polite. SHe responded!!!! I was shocked! This woman actually calmed down and answered my questions and was actually very calm by the time she hung up with me. She had wanted a supervisor call back anyway, and even the supervisor stooped to her level and got nothing from her. I WAS SO PROUD OF MYSELF. I really really works!.
Well I have to keep plodding on working with the program, and I will be okay. Thanks for listening. I am feeling good right now. Calm relaxed. No stomach ache. Just good.
Still HOPEFUL
Whatever I brushed it off. THen she told me that my sister, who is also down south with my parents, did not like him. I stated that she didn't know him. My mom stated that oh she heard some things. I got off the phone pretty quickly after that but my stomach started to hurt. I started thinking and thinking and thinking some more. Then my husband took a nap before work, and I was watching the sauce. I took a shower and he got up and told me I ruined the sauce. I told him I already knew the bottom was burned a little but it is not ruined. He said yes it is ruined. I did not say anything else, but my stomach did the flip flop again and I my wheels started to turn. Why did he have to put me down, why so negative. I bet he still didn't listen to the support tape I asked him to listen to before Christmas. Plus the wheels were turning about my mom & my daughter's boyfriend. Maybe he isn't such a nice guy. What do we really know about him after all. Lot's of things running through the brain. Then I said STOP!!! I made some tea and put on the relaxation tape. No coffee today and no chocolate. GOOD FOR ME!! only decaf green tea. So I felt much better. Then I got to work and the stomach flip flop again. I work at a call center and some of it is customer's calling in but some we have to call them and I hate that part as it give me anxiety as the customer's don't like to be called at home and I think it is me that they are upset with. Anyway I got through that part of the day and heard another agent on a call with an irate customer. The cusomter was swearing and very upset. The agent was yelling back and hung up on the customer. It went to 3 other people before it got to me, and when I got it, I remembered the assertive and not aggressive tape. I kept very calm let her scream and kept asking her for her order number to look up her order. She finally calmed down and gave it to me and as I was looking it up she continued to scream but I paid no attention. I asked her security question 3 times before she calmed down enough to give it to me. I showed her respect and stayed calm and polite. SHe responded!!!! I was shocked! This woman actually calmed down and answered my questions and was actually very calm by the time she hung up with me. She had wanted a supervisor call back anyway, and even the supervisor stooped to her level and got nothing from her. I WAS SO PROUD OF MYSELF. I really really works!.
Well I have to keep plodding on working with the program, and I will be okay. Thanks for listening. I am feeling good right now. Calm relaxed. No stomach ache. Just good.
Still HOPEFUL
