Which would be less painful?

Are obsessive scary thoughts ruling your life? Do these thoughts seem beyond your control? Here’s how you can quickly address them and begin to feel better.
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Post by jthomas » Sun Jan 10, 2010 1:10 am

I find myself now doing the Pro v Con thing on my marriage. Trying to decide which would be less painful, staying in a marriage with no passion or intimacy, or ending the marriage and moving back to living alone.
When I refer to passion and intimacy, I don't mean sex. It seems that my wife an I are more like room mates that a couple. She never has the time or energy for me. Sure we do the "how was your day" thing, and the smooch goodnight etc, but it seems that she is more interested in having a room mate than a husband.

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Post by Guest » Sun Jan 10, 2010 5:48 am

Hi JThomas:
Before you make a final decision on this kind of issure, maybe it would help to search around in your community for some classes on communication.
Actually classes like this can be fun.

Also, how far along are you in this program?
It would not be good to make such a life-changing decision before finishing tihs program.
Maybe even going thru' it a coupld of times.

I hope everything works out for your well-being.
MJ

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