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obsession about coping mechanism

Posted: Thu May 10, 2012 10:44 am
by mack
I am struggling with an obsession or fear that a coping mechanism that i use to calm myself down (singing) will or has become a compulsion. Is this just me obsessing because i'm in a bad setback? When does a coping mechanism become a compulsion? Singing has worked for me to calm me down, and as i mentioned in an earlier post i do it quite a bit at work (by myself at work a lot and bothers no one). Now i'm terrified that something that has worked for me is now out of control even though i never found myself singing all the time even though i'm anxious. Now the act of singing makes me even more inside my head. I love to sing and it admittedly is a coping mechanism. Is it wrong to have coping mechanisms? So frustrated! Please help!

Re: obsession about coping mechanism

Posted: Fri May 11, 2012 1:18 pm
by mack
Wow! Your help is overwhelming...

Re: obsession about coping mechanism

Posted: Tue May 15, 2012 5:36 am
by bob p
mack, you are not bothering anyone and are bringing relaxation to yourself by singing. this is not hurting yourself or anyone else so keep on singing away!