Help!
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 11:14 am
I have been following the program for almost 6 weeks. There are things in the program that I am working on with success, such as the anger and positive thinking.
My problem is the working through the fear. For 30 years I have had a fear of driving. Over the last several years I have gone from being pretty much home bound when I was alone, to driving and going to stores within a reasonable distance. My problem is if I have to go somewhere, I find the back roads that will get me there. I am terrified to drive on main roads, especially if I am stuck in a middle lane or have to make a left hand turn and get stuck in traffic. I go into a full blown panic.
How do you make yourself do these things when you are terrified to even try to confront them. All the positive thinking and self talk seem to fade away when you have to confront your fear in this way. What did you do?
My problem is the working through the fear. For 30 years I have had a fear of driving. Over the last several years I have gone from being pretty much home bound when I was alone, to driving and going to stores within a reasonable distance. My problem is if I have to go somewhere, I find the back roads that will get me there. I am terrified to drive on main roads, especially if I am stuck in a middle lane or have to make a left hand turn and get stuck in traffic. I go into a full blown panic.
How do you make yourself do these things when you are terrified to even try to confront them. All the positive thinking and self talk seem to fade away when you have to confront your fear in this way. What did you do?