Posted: Tue May 06, 2008 10:33 am
Recently I have had to deal with very difficult situations in my life right now.
Grandfather becoming very very ill. In icu for over 2 months. Having to travel upnorth (4 hours) too see him on the weekends, mother losing her best friend to cancer( also like a second mother to me), we lost our old neighbors to a domestic violence dispute (very very tragic), and yesterday just found out that my Brother-in-law has to take a job in a different state and mu sister was hysterical.
We live in Michigan and the economy is horrible and he works for Chrysler and so they NEED money, they also have a 17 month old little girl. The thought of them moving out of state tears me apart. I want to see her grow up and flourish but if they move away I really don't think we would see them much due to mney issues.
Throughout all of this, I have been handling everything ok!
I understand that things in life happen and you have to flow with it and not resist.
It is still difficult at times. Like today when I had to go to the bathroom at work and cry.. It just all sort of caught up to me. But I allowed myself this time to cry.
It's ok, Ive been experiencing a lot lately and this is all normal.
I haven't even experienced scary obsessive thoughts like I used to. Because I know I can handle this and I have skills I have never had before.
Just wanted to share this with everyone!
Grandfather becoming very very ill. In icu for over 2 months. Having to travel upnorth (4 hours) too see him on the weekends, mother losing her best friend to cancer( also like a second mother to me), we lost our old neighbors to a domestic violence dispute (very very tragic), and yesterday just found out that my Brother-in-law has to take a job in a different state and mu sister was hysterical.
We live in Michigan and the economy is horrible and he works for Chrysler and so they NEED money, they also have a 17 month old little girl. The thought of them moving out of state tears me apart. I want to see her grow up and flourish but if they move away I really don't think we would see them much due to mney issues.
Throughout all of this, I have been handling everything ok!
I understand that things in life happen and you have to flow with it and not resist.
It is still difficult at times. Like today when I had to go to the bathroom at work and cry.. It just all sort of caught up to me. But I allowed myself this time to cry.
It's ok, Ive been experiencing a lot lately and this is all normal.
I haven't even experienced scary obsessive thoughts like I used to. Because I know I can handle this and I have skills I have never had before.
Just wanted to share this with everyone!