i could use some help!

azdoc · Post by **azdoc** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:15 pm

listen everyone im a normal guy i work go to school and have a great family and wife . i feel so guilty for looking at porn, it was my first time. however, when i cliked on a site which was based on a picture- of a fairly attaractive women, a teen porn site came on . before it loaded fully i read the top of the screen and i caught it in time so i didnt see anything. underage porn is very illegal. i know cause i use to work in a prison. so now a regular guy, me who got curious and wanted to see the difference between porn and my sex life was, is now ocd-ing every oh 23 seconds about going to jail and destroying my life because a adult porn site was actually some perverted teen site. i know people get locked up for perverted stuff like underage porn or on the tv show to catch a predator but im not like that. just an en-experinced guy on the computer. guys can u help me out. i thank all of u for being mature about this but i cant just go and tell my wife.

spunkylaydee · Post by **spunkylaydee** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:59 pm

All teen porn sites you come across will be 18+. My twin bro used to look at porn before and often saw teen websites. If you want to induldge in underage porn you HAVE to look for it. He never came across ANY, and neither have you! He also got freaked out coz he didn't wanna break the law. And had the exact same worry as you!

bevhembree · Post by **bevhembree** » Sat Jan 19, 2008 4:48 am

Forgive yourself. It was an accident, that's all. Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill. You're not going to get arrested, and you're not a pervert. You said it yourself- You are a normal guy. Take care. Bev

Barb G. · Post by **Barb G.** » Sat Jan 19, 2008 5:25 am

hey normal guy...Relax!! You made an easy mistake. Men everywhere struggle with this so you are not along. Our pastor's son-in-law got busted by his wife at the church that he is a worship leader at. He lost his job. They were due to have a baby. How do you think that made HER feel??? Needless to say, they got special counseling, had their baby and are doing better. Don't know if he got a job. It was curiosity that got him as maybe you too and millions of men like you.

The only thing I can see you maybe having a problem with is sex junk coming in your in-box. I have blockers but for some reason I still get it. I pray for a strip club nearby here. One day I looked up their site to see their hours. BIG MISTAKE!! I get junk off and on. I just keep marking it spam. Sometimes it stops for a while and then suddenly it's back. Prayers out to you, my friend. Tell your wife. It was a mistake and you really did nothing wrong. Often our curiosity gets us in trouble...NO Big Deal as Lucinda says.