Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 5:40 am
Firebug- I can relate to your story a lot. I had a friend who always thought he knew what was best for me and what I "should" be doing with my life. Would even call me late at night to tell me things he had thought of for me to do. At first I found myself explaining my life away to him -"Well, I do this because.........." Until I realized Hey- I don't have to explain my life to him! Finally one day I just said "My life is fine just the way it is and if I need to change something in it I will figure out how to do it, thank you."