My dear sister,
Thank you for sharing this very powerful and true video, and advice. No sense in fretting about what was or how much better things could have been. No sense in being overly concerned about what will be or hasn't happened yet. Give me one moment in time, and try to live that moment to the fullest!
All we have is now, so be thankful for every thing and relationship God has presented you. Our lives are a gift and a miracle; just like that lemon meringue pie. After all is said and done, You really wouldn't want it any other.