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My boyfriend broke up with me today. I am shocked and sad. I didn't expect this, however I knew something was up with him. I just didn't push to hard. when I asked him if he was okay or wanted to talk he would say that he was fine these past couple of weeks. I attributed everything to the stress of owning his buisness. We both are christians. He told me about an experience he had with the Lord about 3 weeks ago where he felt that God told him very plainly that he should not be in a relationship right now. That he had things to do before he should be in a relationship. And again he felt God telling him during the sermon today that God is in control of his life.

I am very heart broken.

I love him and I know he loves me, but our pastor made a comment a couple weeks ago in his sermon...he said that you don't get married because you love someone...you get married because it's God's will and in His plan to further His kingdom. The love is a GIANT extra.

So, I am coping. I walked 31 blocks home from work...(why I was there is another story). I had this feeling of out of body and wanting to run all at the same time. I get moments of were I feel a ball of anxiety in my stomach and I want to vomit. Please pray for me. Please pray for my attitude and pray that I won't get bitter.

I need support right now and prayer.

Thank you so much....

hi,
will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.God made woman to be a help mate and that makes me feel like sometimes we think we hear Gods voice telling us this when in fact it might be there other way around. that being said let him know that you will be there for him when he gets ready to be more then a friend.
its hard for young people to understand.you are younger then me and I am 63 but age is only a number.
keep me in your prayers this week as well.will be going on my 2nd mission trip back to brazil the 29 may-12 june.keep in touch and let me know how you are doing if thats ok.be blessed in all that you do.take care and God Bless.
if God takes you to it .then HE will see you through it.
don

I am sooo sorry about you and your boyfriend breaking up!!! Since, you are both Christians, I have no idea why your ex. would buy into this one...

I just don't understand why he would think that you are not the one for him!!!

I would just pray on this one...God has a way of resolving these type of things...If he truly is the one for you, then, he will come around in his way of thinking!!!

I will be praying for you!!! May God bless and comfort you!!! I will pray if he is the one for you, that God will bring him back to you!!!

In the meantime, you need to pray yourself on this one..."Let go and "Let God!"

May God Richly Bless You!!!

Thanks D and Ms. T Bones,
I didn't sleep well last night so need prayer for that. I work with Pre-k kids 20 of them so sleep is vital for me to not be too down and grumpy and now breaking up with my boyfriend too.

Today was VERY hard. I wanted to call Andrew a couple of times. but i didn't I need to not hear his voice every day now. Sucks but true. I'm still grieving this relationship and have to go back to work tomorrow and have a happy face.

I just miss him. And I am thankful that the Lord is taking care of me through my roommates whom have grown to be friends. They took me out to dinner and then took me to a beach to walk their dogs with them. It was a good 4 hours out of the house. I needed it.

Wow...I would love to be at a beach somewhere...
You are blessed to be near the ocean!!!

I am still praying....God Bless!!!