If this helps, I believe that rushing into physical intimacy before really getting to know someone will many times ruin a relationship.
I also believe that may have a hand in the divorce rate - not saying across the board but as a general rule, couples who fall in love through lust and then get to know each other later on tend to have a rougher time with marriage.
Marriages that form under agape love, with both parties entering into an agreement with God tend to take the marriage a lot more seriously.
Just my opinion, for what it's worth. Next month I'll be married 19 years.
Catholicism and Sex
Shif,
I couldn't agree more!
I also believe that our society has just made divorce so "normal", that noone thinks anything of it. Marriage is a SACRED bond between two people, that should be taken very seriously. I KNOW I did not enter my marriage this way. I had HUGE concerns about my ex even going into my marriage, but remember thinking that if it didn't work out, well, we would just get a divorce! I knew I should have paid more attention to that RED FLAG!
John
I couldn't agree more!
I also believe that our society has just made divorce so "normal", that noone thinks anything of it. Marriage is a SACRED bond between two people, that should be taken very seriously. I KNOW I did not enter my marriage this way. I had HUGE concerns about my ex even going into my marriage, but remember thinking that if it didn't work out, well, we would just get a divorce! I knew I should have paid more attention to that RED FLAG!
John