4 boyfriends--I had to share!

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BTTRFLY
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Post by BTTRFLY » Mon Nov 05, 2007 3:36 am

This is a great lesson!

Four Boyfriends...

Once upon a time there was this girl who had four boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adored him with rich robes and
treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing
but the best.

She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him
off
to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave
her for another.

She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always
kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a
problem, she could confide in him,
and he would help her get through the difficult times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great
contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did
not
love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she
hardly took notice of him.

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. S he thought
of
her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but
when I die, I'll be all alone.'

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, I loved you the most, endowed you
with
the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm
dying,
will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No way!', replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without another
word. His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now
that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No!', replied the 3rd boyfriend. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm
going to marry someone else!' Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always turned to you for help
and you've always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', repli e d the 2nd
boyfriend.
'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was
devastated.

Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter
where you go.'

The girl looked up, and there was her first boyfriend. He was very
skinny
as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of
you when I had the chance!'
In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you
lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you d ie.

Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth. When you die,
it will all go to others.

Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they
have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up
to the grave.

And yo u r 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of
wealth,
power and pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you
go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only
part of you that will follow you to the throne of God and continue with
you throughout Eternity.

Thought for the day: Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees,
you're in the perfect position to pray.
"If nothing ever changed...there would be no Butterflies." Author unknown

Dana Gann
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Post by Dana Gann » Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:42 am

That was absolutely beautiful! I immediately copied it over to my 4 grown daughters. Thanks so much for sharing! :)
dana

Browneyed girl3
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Post by Browneyed girl3 » Mon Nov 05, 2007 5:39 am

[QUOTE]Originally posted by BTTRFLY:
This is a great lesson!

Four Boyfriends...

Great words of wisdom and a great metaphor.

Brown eyed girl

LindsCT
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Post by LindsCT » Mon Nov 05, 2007 8:15 am

What a beautiful story. Thank you so much for sharing that!
"It's all in the mind, you know." ~George Harrison

hope 07
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Post by hope 07 » Tue Nov 06, 2007 12:16 pm

Thank you alot, that really is true! Thanks for sharing!

bubblybrunette
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Post by bubblybrunette » Mon Dec 03, 2007 8:35 am

that was a great post! i loved it and its so true.
"Don't be afraid of death; be afraid of an unlived life."
~Tuck Everlasting~

Erek13
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Post by Erek13 » Wed Jan 02, 2008 4:10 am

Wow! That was a great story! Thank you for sharing that.

JNB
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Post by JNB » Wed Jan 02, 2008 4:23 am

I so needed to read that today, thank you so much, it was beautiful and an eye opener,

soccer18
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Post by soccer18 » Fri Jan 04, 2008 5:43 pm

AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG AND SOOO TRUE :D

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