Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 6:37 pm
I can honestly say if I get angry enough I will start mouthing off. But at times I back off, something tells me to. I had an incident with this foreign caretaker at a cemetary. Her WHOLE aura was surrounded with negativity. IT JUST REEKS OUT OF PEOPLE and you dont even have to say a word to them....WHAT THE CRAP IS THAT??? who knew what her agitation was all about, but I was in direct fire.
Anyway....I brushed it off, her nastiness and all I took it as "she may be just plain mean, she has a very serious problem, or something else, but I tried to alleviate it with smiles and good talk. I dont know if I helped her but it sure took a weight off me. I let her problem BE HER PROBLEM, I tried to make her feel positive. It didnt work for that short time. Hopefully someone else will come along and make her happy even for a minute. It all helps. E
Anyway....I brushed it off, her nastiness and all I took it as "she may be just plain mean, she has a very serious problem, or something else, but I tried to alleviate it with smiles and good talk. I dont know if I helped her but it sure took a weight off me. I let her problem BE HER PROBLEM, I tried to make her feel positive. It didnt work for that short time. Hopefully someone else will come along and make her happy even for a minute. It all helps. E