Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 7:27 am
I have just watched the coaching video on Session 6 this morning. Lucinda says to take a 24 hour break to sort of (paraphrasing) decide if your anger is justified and productive.
My problem is that I get angry over such little things that 24 hours would be pointless...I guess so is my anger.
It's not explosive or anything - it's more like that "look" I give my husband when he leaves glasses all around his recliner and the newspaper wadded up on the floor and just walks into the bedroom and gets in bed - not turning lights off or letting the dog out or anything. I tend to feel the victim and get pouty-angry.
Like when he says, "What's wrong?" And we all know what my answer is..."NOTHING."
I just wonder how I'm supposed to deal with all of the stupid little things that I get angry about every day.
Thanks,
Dawn
My problem is that I get angry over such little things that 24 hours would be pointless...I guess so is my anger.
It's not explosive or anything - it's more like that "look" I give my husband when he leaves glasses all around his recliner and the newspaper wadded up on the floor and just walks into the bedroom and gets in bed - not turning lights off or letting the dog out or anything. I tend to feel the victim and get pouty-angry.
Like when he says, "What's wrong?" And we all know what my answer is..."NOTHING."
I just wonder how I'm supposed to deal with all of the stupid little things that I get angry about every day.
Thanks,
Dawn