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Ronnie 1981 · Post by **Ronnie 1981** » Wed Sep 08, 2010 8:48 am

i ffel that i always try to please people too much or i being too niceeven thogh i dont want to cause when i feel like i dont do this their gonna think bad of me.like reapeatdly i would say thank you or excuse me all the time evertywhere i go sometimes i even feel guilty about it can any body relate?

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Wed Sep 08, 2010 8:28 pm

I've gone through the exact same thing you did. Feeling guilty about everything I said or did even when I didn't do anything to make myself feel guilty. I would apologize for no reason at all but I felt I should have. I tried to please everyone but myself. In the end it made me angry and depressed. Just to let you know you're not alone.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Thu Sep 09, 2010 5:12 am

I want to please my son all the time and I catch myself saying "I'm sorry" for things that are out of my control. He is a teenager so nothing makes him anxious except that he cannot have a car and driving privliges. I'm always saying I'm sorry and I love you and I can see it actually gets on his nerves because he feels obligated to say I love you back.