I identify with the above statements - I feel EXACTLY the same way about my life.swordmaster wrote: I too feel more comfortable texting or emailing individuals due to social anxiety...{trimmed}...The anxieties I have are for good reason and due to my past experiences and my lack of self worth. I have always been overlooked, underappreciated, and completely on my own my entire life. I did not get love and compassion from my parents and had to deal with any and every traumatic experience in my life on my own. Still to this very day.
I am very sensitive to others emotions and feelings and can see things in people just by looking at their face, into their eyes, that most people overlook. It is very exhausting. My username is swordmaster because I always joke around about how I am always here wielding my sword for all of those in need. I have actually had people use me to fight their battles for them and that was a serious wakeup call. I hate to see people being mistreated and will stand up for them. I hate to see someone down and will pick them up. The problem is, whenever I need the same, no one has ever done that for me. It hurts so bad and just contributes more to me being completely worthless and insignificant to all that are supposed to care about me the most.
I am that rock that everyone thinks can make it through anything. And I can, but it doesn't mean that I don't need to be cared for to, or that I don't need encouragement or support. I am one of the strongest people I know, but I have my hard times too and I'm human just like the rest of us.
How is it possible that we are the strong pillar types that everyone rely's upon yet it's so easy for us to be overlooked that we are human and need attention, affection, and support as well? I feel like I have never had my own support system, feel that just about all of my friends would never call on me, call me, ask me to go out with them (which they don't - and I don't have many left for that reason), unless I was the one to reach out to them first? Why is it that I feel so isolated from everyone? Why do I get embarassed when someone pays me a compliment or tells me how strong and smart I am? Why can't I use that as an ego boost/self-confidence boost instead of shrugging it off? What up with all that?