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by Nel01073
Tue Dec 20, 2011 2:05 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: depression
Replies: 2
Views: 1688

Re: depression

Hi anita. Try to give yourself time to get ready. Dont stress yourself out. Sometimes I get so anxious when visiting relatives but it ends up not being that big of a deal. Give yourself permission to be a little anxious but dont freak out. Try to have fun. :)
by Nel01073
Mon Dec 19, 2011 9:29 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Here we go
Replies: 5
Views: 6041

Re: Here we go

Hi iwillbebetter. This is a great session. I come back to it all the time. Good luck. :D
by Nel01073
Mon Dec 19, 2011 9:25 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Needing External Validation
Replies: 2
Views: 4639

Re: Needing External Validation

Hi Neverquit. This has been a life long struggle for me except I kind of always been aware of it but it has gotten worse lately. Im always comparing myself to others in different ways. Ive been doing it for so long its become a part of who I am. Also im constantly wanting to change my family members...
by Nel01073
Mon Dec 19, 2011 9:05 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Fear of blushing
Replies: 6
Views: 2792

Re: Fear of blushing

Hi katem. I can totally relate. It started happening about a year ago and I just want it to go away. It happens even when im not embarrassed. I just start to think what if it happened right now what will they think of me if it did etc. Even though it still happens its not as often as it used to. I j...
by Nel01073
Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:01 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Uncontrollable watery eyes
Replies: 15
Views: 11750

Re: Uncontrollable watery eyes

Hi iwillbebetter I cant remember if that ever happened to me like that but I know that sometimes when I go to stores it happens. Maybe its the bright lights but its very annoying. I think if youre worried about what people think it makes it worse. I do have a problem with blushing and it happens eve...
by Nel01073
Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:32 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: I CANT BELIEVE SOME OF U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Replies: 36
Views: 32279

Re: I CANT BELIEVE SOME OF U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi wintrbelle. Please dont stress yourself out. I think Im still a bit confused myself. I just post wherever I can. Maybe not as much as I wish I could but I try. Ive noticed most people post on the general comments section on the session theyre working on or some just answer to different posts. I d...
by Nel01073
Fri Dec 16, 2011 8:02 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: When things arent fair
Replies: 5
Views: 5628

Re: When things arent fair

Thank you iwillbebetter. I do think we should be able to keep a balance. Im learning that some things arent as important as others and little by little Im starting to let go (though its been hard). Other thing are more complicated. It was really hard for me to address some of those things because I ...
by Nel01073
Fri Dec 16, 2011 1:27 am
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: I CANT BELIEVE SOME OF U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Replies: 36
Views: 32279

Re: I CANT BELIEVE SOME OF U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello wintrbelle. I think a lot of us were confused about where to post so they removed the monthly message boards. We were also getting a lot of spam. Now we just use the three that are up there. I just go to the session I need help with or where Im gonna answer to a post. A lot of these posts are ...
by Nel01073
Wed Dec 14, 2011 2:33 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: I think I'm getting it!!
Replies: 5
Views: 3040

Re: I think I'm getting it!!

Thank you iwillbebetter for sharing your story. I really like to hear about things like this because they give me hope that my life can change. Sometimes it is easier for me not to talk about my feelings but I know that doesnt help me in the long run. It is great that you had the courage to tell you...
by Nel01073
Mon Dec 12, 2011 9:44 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: You feel what you think
Replies: 4
Views: 2731

Re: You feel what you think

This is so true. I try to remember this when im feeling depressed. Ive actually stopped myself from going into depression by changing my thoughts and by knowing I can control how I feel.