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by THH
Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:47 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part4
Replies: 84
Views: 35739

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part4

Mary B & Lyndalu, It does at times get overwhelming. I feel that way too. Is this your first time though? I did go though it several times now. It has helped me in many ways. I think our negative way of thinking is such a natural way for us. I go though spells where I really work on finding the righ...
by THH
Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:30 pm
Forum: Session 11 - Medication and Alcohol
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part11
Replies: 8
Views: 12189

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part11

Mike:
What are those animals????? LOL... Strange feet. Big eyes, must be nocturnal. :mrgreen:
by THH
Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:26 pm
Forum: Session 11 - Medication and Alcohol
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part11
Replies: 8
Views: 12189

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part11

Mike, You have been busy, in a good way. I'm so happy that you have seen some of your anxiety and found a different perspective to view it from. A sign of growth! It is odd how things others have spoken over us effect our being. We tend to focus on the negative, even if there were hundreds of good t...
by THH
Tue Jan 28, 2014 6:53 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part4
Replies: 84
Views: 35739

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part4

Mary B, Oh yes, I think we all have thought "WE SHOULD" be over this... :mrgreen: This program is helping me identify "why". And at times asking why can be an obsessive behavior. I do over think things and want to know why. My advise is to continue through the program and try to identify with some o...
by THH
Tue Jan 28, 2014 6:30 pm
Forum: Session 11 - Medication and Alcohol
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part11
Replies: 8
Views: 12189

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part11

Mike, I liked how you summed up everything this far. Its good. I can't think of anything to add except, we tend to be over thinkers. I like the phrase keep it simple, because I personally can get hung up on over thinking in general. Go with the flow. Give yourself the short version. I personally do ...
by THH
Mon Jan 27, 2014 8:01 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10
Replies: 30
Views: 19082

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10

Forever Young, What I posted could be your fear of the elevator too. Do you really fear the elevator or the anticipation of what could happen while in the elevator? I don't like the elevator. I don't like being close to people crammed in there, or being the only one in there. Thinking what if the po...
by THH
Mon Jan 27, 2014 7:45 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10
Replies: 30
Views: 19082

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10

I have had many challenges these last few days. I'm doing alright with all of them. Everyone I speak with is fed up with the weather and feeling very angry & negative. I feel exhausted myself as I am trying to work my thoughts and keep myself up in spite of the conversations I have been hearing. I c...
by THH
Fri Jan 24, 2014 8:26 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: Should I move onto session 4?
Replies: 4
Views: 4688

Re: Should I move onto session 4?

Mary B, Hi, do each session as you need/ like. You don't have to do it perfectly but rather have some solid idea how it may apply to you and your life. Then move on, I believe they suggest a week. You can revisit at anytime you like. I have found for me certain sessions are good to come back to. My ...
by THH
Fri Jan 24, 2014 8:19 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10
Replies: 30
Views: 19082

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10

Forever Young, This is not easy, it takes time and awareness. It is a life changing process and it seams that we want instant changes. We make some changes and it helps, but then we experience some of the same behavior and get scared or frustrated. The key for me is keep trying, find some new words ...
by THH
Fri Jan 24, 2014 8:07 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10
Replies: 30
Views: 19082

Re: Empowering Group Program Run-through part10

I get what Mike said Its not about seeing everything as good, its about seeing the good and letting it dilute the negative stuff. Allow the negative stuff to be what it is because it is but focus on the good stuff. If you deny the negative stuff or refuse to look at it then that can be really bad as...