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by garyhermesch52
Thu Sep 08, 2011 1:31 pm
Forum: Session 9 - Get Off the Guilt & Worry Treadmill
Topic: Republican presidential candidate debate
Replies: 1
Views: 3718

Republican presidential candidate debate

Rick Santorum was the man, in my opinion. He was the only one that really seemed to understand this anxiety and depression condition and the role it plays in 'the welfare state', etc. He talked about having worked on reforming the welfare programs in the Senate, I believe, and how previously the pro...
by garyhermesch52
Tue Sep 06, 2011 8:59 pm
Forum: Session 8 - Put an End to "What-If" Thinking
Topic: HUGE QUESTION PLEASE ANSWER!
Replies: 1
Views: 4287

Re: HUGE QUESTION PLEASE ANSWER!

I would suggest trying to go through all the material from each session at least twice before you move on (except maybe the DVD on the TV, which I usually only watch once per session), before you move on. Then I normally don't worry about whether I think I 'got' it all or not, because at least I kno...
by garyhermesch52
Mon Aug 29, 2011 3:26 pm
Forum: Session 8 - Put an End to "What-If" Thinking
Topic: Back to the drawing board
Replies: 0
Views: 3836

Back to the drawing board

I played basketball this morning and a guy who has been playing dirty started doing it again. Instead of having a plan to practice being assertive ahead of time and using it, I let it build for awhile and then pushed him aggressively. Of course, just like Lucinda said on the tape he got defensive, s...
by garyhermesch52
Fri Aug 26, 2011 9:59 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: SEXUALLY ABUSED
Replies: 1
Views: 2108

Re: SEXUALLY ABUSED

I've never been physically abused but I have been emotionally (probably we all have been). I think it causes to a greater or lesser degree the same thing, which is self-hate. I'm not an expert but I'm thinking thats what is probably behind scary thoughts. What we have to remember is that the self-ha...
by garyhermesch52
Tue Aug 23, 2011 3:03 pm
Forum: Session 7 - Assertive Behavior: Speak Confidently, Gain Respect
Topic: Martin Luther probably had anxiety
Replies: 2
Views: 5071

Martin Luther probably had anxiety

I watched a program about Martin Luther one time and they said that when he was a kid even his mother beat him until the blood flowed. I guess thats just the way the culture was in that part of Germany in the 16th century, so if that's true it would stand to reason that he would have had a very low ...
by garyhermesch52
Wed Aug 17, 2011 1:38 pm
Forum: Session 5 - Eat and Exercise to Minimize Anxiety and Depression
Topic: More confused than ever...
Replies: 2
Views: 2683

Re: More confused than ever...

I just thought I'd comment that when I read your post, it seemed like you might be over-analyzing the eating thing. I try to just eat things that are as basic and simple and unprocessed as I can find. For instance you can get very low sodium tuna at Walmart. Maybe lowfat or unsalted crackers or some...
by garyhermesch52
Sun Aug 14, 2011 8:15 pm
Forum: Session 5 - Eat and Exercise to Minimize Anxiety and Depression
Topic: Having a drink or two after a workout
Replies: 3
Views: 3061

Re: Having a drink or two after a workout

Thanks for the tip. I think I'll try more or less quitting at least until I get over this. I think it will especially be a good idea
until I go back to working full time more regularly. At least it will be doing something different than I have been.
by garyhermesch52
Mon Aug 08, 2011 10:54 pm
Forum: Session 5 - Eat and Exercise to Minimize Anxiety and Depression
Topic: Having a drink or two after a workout
Replies: 3
Views: 3061

Having a drink or two after a workout

I have pretty much always liked working out (basketball, jogging, swimming, weights, hitting a heavy bag, etc). I like having a nice drink or two (JD/coke or whatever) after a good hard workout. I go from feeling all pumped up from the workout to having a really nice relaxed feeling. Then I also sti...
by garyhermesch52
Sun Aug 07, 2011 9:32 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Why do the lights always turn yellow for me
Replies: 0
Views: 1292

Why do the lights always turn yellow for me

It just dawned on me on the way to church this morning that I'm always looking ahead at the lights at the intersections and if they're green I'm expecting them (there's that word again) to turn yellow just as I approach the intersection. Then when they do happen to turn yellow I'm like see there I w...
by garyhermesch52
Sun Aug 07, 2011 8:58 pm
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: Im getting desparate
Replies: 5
Views: 2270

Re: Im getting desparate

As I understand the comments in the program about why the panic and anxiety get worse sometimes as we go through it is because for the first time we are giving ourselves permission to be anxious. In other words we don't just keep running from it. It shows we are becoming more knowledgeable about the...