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by FMB100
Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:41 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: My obsessive nature
Replies: 1
Views: 3992

My obsessive nature

I have noticed my obsessive nature relates to perfection and cause and effect relationships that do not exist. I am currently doing endless planning for a vacation and am still going back and forth between 3 tours. I'm sure all are good and I can only go on one of them but don't want to make the wro...
by FMB100
Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:14 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Please help me with obsessive thoughts
Replies: 1
Views: 2612

Please help me with obsessive thoughts

I tend to create what my psychologist would call a cause and effect relationship that does not exist. The problem is when I have such thoughts, my pulse and/or my blood pressure will increase and until I can move on, I will have this condition. A general example may be if I do something but not perf...
by FMB100
Wed Jan 04, 2012 12:43 am
Forum: Session 15 - Getting Beyond a Growth Spurt
Topic: My first major growth spurt
Replies: 2
Views: 5400

My first major growth spurt

I finished the course over a 1/2 year ago and have been doing fine except of late. Once again I am back to thinking in a way that raises my blood pressure because of me being imperfect, indecisive or having a cause and effect relationship that does not exist. I have always found that things that alw...
by FMB100
Wed Jun 01, 2011 8:43 am
Forum: Session 15 - Getting Beyond a Growth Spurt
Topic: Anxiety out of control
Replies: 3
Views: 6197

Re: Anxiety out of control

Thank you both for your response. I am doing better of late.
by FMB100
Wed Apr 20, 2011 1:56 pm
Forum: Session 15 - Getting Beyond a Growth Spurt
Topic: Anxiety out of control
Replies: 3
Views: 6197

Anxiety out of control

I have just completed the program. I realize the thoughts that I needed to respond to differently were not rational and I have made good progress. Now I am having a growth spurt and need help. I am breaking new ground by having anxiety about a situation that has a remote chance of happening rather t...
by FMB100
Wed Mar 30, 2011 9:21 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Thoughts causing anxiety symptons
Replies: 1
Views: 1468

Thoughts causing anxiety symptons

I have used the techniques in this course and usually I am not as affected by scary thoughts but not always. For some reason I am now thinking of a security guard in high school who I thought used unnecessary force on me and that even kept me up for an hour in the middle of the night last night. Thi...
by FMB100
Thu Mar 17, 2011 8:24 am
Forum: Session 12 - The Courage to Change
Topic: Need Help
Replies: 1
Views: 3642

Need Help

This session has been tough because I am noticing the secondary gains and symptoms I am staring to get from anxiety. I notice how nervous I am gettig just by even the thought of a new job or career even though I think it may be good for me. I am starting to wonder what if it doesn't work out or what...
by FMB100
Thu Feb 24, 2011 11:07 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: I'm in crisis mode
Replies: 1
Views: 1455

I'm in crisis mode

I was doing very well with this program until this session. Before this session I was able to write down a scary thought in my journal and it goes away. Something is happening with this session that they are persisting. I should mention my scary thoughts are not thoughts of hurting someone. But this...
by FMB100
Tue Feb 22, 2011 8:11 am
Forum: Session 6 - Stop Being Angry and Control Your Mood Swings
Topic: Traffic Stops
Replies: 2
Views: 4363

Traffic Stops

The tape talks about dissolve or resolve and I have a very hard time with it. I will give you all the info and my thoughts and see if you have suggestions. Over 14 years ago I was subject to traffic stops both as a passenger and a driver. I am confident I was not doing anything wrong yet I was quest...
by FMB100
Thu Feb 10, 2011 11:29 pm
Forum: Session 2 - Six Steps Designed to Put an End to Panic Attacks
Topic: Panic Attacks from unknown sources
Replies: 5
Views: 1800

Panic Attacks from unknown sources

I am about midway through the program and was doing well. For some reason this week, I am getting panic attacks again. The 6 steps are helping to some extent but not completely since I still have the body symptoms of panic attacks. What is frustrating is I do not know which thought or event may have...