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by Gerri Ahart
Wed Aug 22, 2012 12:41 pm
Forum: Depression
Topic: need someone to talk to!
Replies: 4
Views: 4446

Re: need someone to talk to!

Good Morning- You have a very similar story to mine, but I have been married for 16 years. My husband is mean and hurtful and is suffering from his own issues that he doesn't want to face. I have had this program for 2 years now and I loaded it on my ipod. It is my go to reminder to live my life. I ...
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:46 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 120767

my husband has been home for 6 days from rehab and we are making it

i rocked it at the gym today

i went to alanon meeting and shared
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:44 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Does anyone ever have little bad things that keep happening over and over again???
Replies: 6
Views: 1745

when i first started this program my husband and i were in a bad place. he is an alsoholic and we had been living this life for quite sometime. it seemed as soon as i would learn something in the tapes or be insightful about my own behavior- something would happen so I could try out my new found ski...
by Gerri Ahart
Wed Nov 10, 2010 3:12 am
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Collecting insults, rude and cruel remarks.
Replies: 25
Views: 6146

Mike- You are correct. I guess instances like when those insults are thrown are perfect opportunities to practice what I have learned. Which is tons. I wouldn't have been able to make the changes had I not found this program. I am learning that I could be a 6 foot 3 blonde model with huge breasts an...
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:40 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 120767

monday

1) for my mother in law who is trying despite the fact our entire family is at odds
2) Rachel- who lets me drop F bombs to make me feel beter
3) My eye rx did not change at my exam- guess turning 40 had no effect on the peepers yet
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:30 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: Collecting insults, rude and cruel remarks.
Replies: 25
Views: 6146

If you are still looking for insults here you go... You suck as a wife You need to go and have someone teach you how to be a better wife I don't take you to functions because I am embarrassed to be seen with you You are selfish You are lazy You are simple minded You were raised in the Ranchos You're...
by Gerri Ahart
Thu Oct 14, 2010 5:36 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: Anyone want to be my partner?
Replies: 5
Views: 2120

i do session 3 about every other day. i have to keep putting that cd in over and over. i have to be constantly reminded. i write post its - on my mirror in the bathroom with dry erase- as soon as a thought starts i squash it. it is a new behavior for me but this session has made a huge difference in...
by Gerri Ahart
Thu Oct 14, 2010 5:24 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 120767

shif - i like your line too- i added that on my email signature and am reminded all day :) 3 things for today(which has been hard) 1- after a conflict with my husband- i didn't meltdown- walked away and did self talk-no panic attack- WOW- it worked! 2-modern family- that show cracked me up today whe...
by Gerri Ahart
Fri Oct 08, 2010 1:22 pm
Forum: Depression
Topic: Lonely
Replies: 35
Views: 12356

I am sorry that you are sad- just gonna post because i am too. im lonely too but in a house full of people. i am a stranger to my husband who basically loathes me- and i have been trying to keep myself together for the four kids that we have. they are the reason that i live alothough i know that if ...
by Gerri Ahart
Mon Aug 16, 2010 3:18 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: January 1, 2010 - 3 good things
Replies: 532
Views: 120767

This is very hard as I had a rough day today and had a full blown anxiety attack- 1st one since starting the program and off of my meds so here it goes: 1-my son makes a point to kiss me hello-goodbye-whenever-even if he's just leaving for football practice (he is 13) 2-I got a haircut that I wasn't...