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by Abbey3680
Sat Jan 03, 2009 1:42 pm
Forum: Session 15 - Getting Beyond a Growth Spurt
Topic: Halelulah!!! I finished the program today.
Replies: 7
Views: 4214

Congratulations to me!!! I finally finished the program today, and I am ecstatic. I'm so excited and I feel like I'm on my way to the new and improved me. I know that there will be challenges, I now feel better informed to face these challenges. I'm going to take the two week information vacation as...
by Abbey3680
Sun Dec 21, 2008 11:37 am
Forum: Session 14 - How to Keep Stress from Becoming Anxiety
Topic: Procrastination, Avoidance and Obsessing!!!
Replies: 5
Views: 3821

I have been trying to finish up the program for the last couple of weeks. I have been stuck on session 14 for the last two weeks. I finally get a groove going, then I stop doing anything for a couple of days. I'm so close to finishing the program, but I feel like I'm avoiding it and procrastinating ...
by Abbey3680
Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:52 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Anxious at night...is it associated with Obsessive Scary Thoughts?
Replies: 3
Views: 1987

Hi Emilie, I do listen to the relaxation tape, not as often as I should. I have found that it does help to relax me at night. When I'm alone at night I hesitate to listen to the relaxation tape because I feel that I have to be alert. I can't let my guards down. Sometimes I force myself to listen to ...
by Abbey3680
Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:39 am
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: Knowing whether to end a relationship
Replies: 18
Views: 7194

I know it is really tough, but you have to try to stay positive. My ex and I still live under the same roof and we just ended an 8yr relationship. When my ex went out of town last weekend, I was so sad and depressed. I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep. Then I said to myself, my ex is probably not worr...
by Abbey3680
Mon Oct 13, 2008 3:18 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Anxious at night...is it associated with Obsessive Scary Thoughts?
Replies: 3
Views: 1987

I have a very hard time being alone, particularly at night. My fear is that someone is going to try to break-in my home and attack me. I don't think I obsess over it, I just feel very anxious when I am alone at night. Is the anxiousness from being obsessive over someone trying to break-in? I have be...
by Abbey3680
Mon Oct 13, 2008 3:04 am
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: thoughts about openspace
Replies: 5
Views: 1907

Hi Donna, Very uplifting and inspiring message, thanks for sharing. I just ended an 8yr relationship that I was very dependent on. It took me a while to end it because I was terrified of being alone, particularly at night. I also was afraid to rely on me and only me. I've found that going through th...
by Abbey3680
Mon Oct 13, 2008 2:15 am
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: Knowing whether to end a relationship
Replies: 18
Views: 7194

Hi Debbie, Thanks so much for the kind and caring response. After careful consideration, I've decided to end the relationship. I feel that it is the best thing to do. I have found that putting God first in my life helps ease the pain. I was very much dependent in the relationship as well. I am going...
by Abbey3680
Mon Oct 13, 2008 2:07 am
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: Knowing whether to end a relationship
Replies: 18
Views: 7194

I decided to end our relationship. I came to the conclusion that we are on two different pages in our life. Do you have a problem with being alone? or do you just dislike the idea of being with someone who travels? Both are true for me. I wish you the best with your relationship. Originally posted b...
by Abbey3680
Mon Oct 13, 2008 2:02 am
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: Knowing whether to end a relationship
Replies: 18
Views: 7194

I'm dealing with the hurt from a 8yr relationship. My advice to you is to take things one day at a time. If you feel that she is the one for you, if it is meant for you two to be together, she will come back to you. I say for the time being, focus on yourself and getting back to where you want to be...
by Abbey3680
Mon Oct 13, 2008 1:55 am
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: Knowing whether to end a relationship
Replies: 18
Views: 7194

Hi Susie, I have been really thinking about my relationship and I've decided to end it. We are no longer in a relationship. The hard part now is that we are still under the same roof. I'm sure that I did the right thing. I just have to give myself some time to get over the relationship. Thank you fo...