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by missobsessive
Mon Apr 09, 2012 6:49 pm
Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
Topic: better
Replies: 5
Views: 2991

Re: better

Thanks for sharing Mike!!! It's so nice to be able to read and see a real live success story. I wish we could read more on here! I think that maybe as people get better, they don't log on as much - that's why we don't see more stories like yours! But thanks so much for sharing, it's such a nice remi...
by missobsessive
Sun Apr 08, 2012 8:00 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: compliments and confidence
Replies: 3
Views: 4973

Re: compliments and confidence

I will say that I think this is one area where I think I'm ok. If someone compliments me on a shirt or something I just say "oh thanks, I got it at ....". Then I'll usually say something about them that I like, like a bracelet they're wearing or something. You could try doing that!! You deserve the ...
by missobsessive
Fri Apr 06, 2012 8:24 pm
Forum: Session 7 - Assertive Behavior: Speak Confidently, Gain Respect
Topic: struggling with being assertive
Replies: 5
Views: 6532

Re: struggling with being assertive

Hi all, I know this last post if from a couple months ago, but just wanted to share that I bought "The Assertiveness Workbook" by Randy J. Paterson a while ago. It was really helpful in this area, very informative and helps you learn a lot about yourself in this area, which will help you realize wha...
by missobsessive
Fri Apr 06, 2012 8:17 pm
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
Replies: 5
Views: 4079

Re: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!

Thanks for the post :D And yes, when you actually implement the skills, it's crazy how you can feel yourself start to feel better. I had a couple months of actually living in the moment and it was AWESOME. But the growth spurt and dealing with the past has brought it back. But I know it'll pass and ...
by missobsessive
Fri Apr 06, 2012 11:39 am
Forum: Triumphs
Topic: Practicing assertiveness!!
Replies: 3
Views: 5774

Re: Practicing assertiveness!!

Hi Iwillbebetter, Thanks for the reply! Yeah, it's funny how when you are going through this program, the more you realize about yourself. I remember when I very first got the program, I was SO RELIEVED to know that I wasn't going crazy, etc. But first listening to all of the lessons, I remember I k...
by missobsessive
Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:46 pm
Forum: Session 8 - Put an End to "What-If" Thinking
Topic: New Job, now i need new ideas
Replies: 4
Views: 6205

Re: New Job, now i need new ideas

Hi rj. I see this post was from a while ago but I was wondering how you've been? I was having a similar experience with my job. I was having pretty intense anxiety about whether or not I was doing a good enough job, etc. I felt like everyone could tell that I was freaking out on the inside, I was co...
by missobsessive
Tue Apr 03, 2012 7:26 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: anyone gotten over scary thoughts?
Replies: 5
Views: 6866

Re: anyone gotten over scary thoughts?

Hi Bob, I havent' completely gotten over the obsessive scary thoughts, but I have had a few occasions where I was able to notice them when they were starting and prevent myself from getting sucked into them. I don't even know what was going on at the time to make me start obsessing, but I can rememb...
by missobsessive
Tue Apr 03, 2012 2:21 pm
Forum: Triumphs
Topic: Practicing assertiveness!!
Replies: 3
Views: 5774

Practicing assertiveness!!

Just wanted to share myself practicing some little assertiveness skills. I noticed at work how when any little mistake happens i over react internally, catastrophizing the consequences of the mistake, beating myself up and blaming myself for it. I process orders for a company and a customer needed o...
by missobsessive
Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:06 pm
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
Replies: 5
Views: 4079

Re: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!

Ahh I don't know why it posted twice... :roll:
by missobsessive
Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:05 pm
Forum: Participant Questions & Support
Topic: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
Replies: 5
Views: 4079

i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!

Hi everyone, I don't usually post in here, just read a lot of the posts. But I decided to post bc I'm having a hard time. (Even though I did have some small triumphs, which I will be posting in the triumph section after this :D ) Bla I've been having a difficult time lately. I'm listening to the pro...