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- Mon Apr 09, 2012 6:49 pm
- Forum: General Comments/Inquiries about
- Topic: better
- Replies: 5
- Views: 3014
Re: better
Thanks for sharing Mike!!! It's so nice to be able to read and see a real live success story. I wish we could read more on here! I think that maybe as people get better, they don't log on as much - that's why we don't see more stories like yours! But thanks so much for sharing, it's such a nice remi...
- Sun Apr 08, 2012 8:00 pm
- Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
- Topic: compliments and confidence
- Replies: 3
- Views: 4992
Re: compliments and confidence
I will say that I think this is one area where I think I'm ok. If someone compliments me on a shirt or something I just say "oh thanks, I got it at ....". Then I'll usually say something about them that I like, like a bracelet they're wearing or something. You could try doing that!! You deserve the ...
- Fri Apr 06, 2012 8:24 pm
- Forum: Session 7 - Assertive Behavior: Speak Confidently, Gain Respect
- Topic: struggling with being assertive
- Replies: 5
- Views: 6746
Re: struggling with being assertive
Hi all, I know this last post if from a couple months ago, but just wanted to share that I bought "The Assertiveness Workbook" by Randy J. Paterson a while ago. It was really helpful in this area, very informative and helps you learn a lot about yourself in this area, which will help you realize wha...
- Fri Apr 06, 2012 8:17 pm
- Forum: Participant Questions & Support
- Topic: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4117
Re: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
Thanks for the post :D And yes, when you actually implement the skills, it's crazy how you can feel yourself start to feel better. I had a couple months of actually living in the moment and it was AWESOME. But the growth spurt and dealing with the past has brought it back. But I know it'll pass and ...
- Fri Apr 06, 2012 11:39 am
- Forum: Triumphs
- Topic: Practicing assertiveness!!
- Replies: 3
- Views: 5936
Re: Practicing assertiveness!!
Hi Iwillbebetter, Thanks for the reply! Yeah, it's funny how when you are going through this program, the more you realize about yourself. I remember when I very first got the program, I was SO RELIEVED to know that I wasn't going crazy, etc. But first listening to all of the lessons, I remember I k...
- Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:46 pm
- Forum: Session 8 - Put an End to "What-If" Thinking
- Topic: New Job, now i need new ideas
- Replies: 4
- Views: 6345
Re: New Job, now i need new ideas
Hi rj. I see this post was from a while ago but I was wondering how you've been? I was having a similar experience with my job. I was having pretty intense anxiety about whether or not I was doing a good enough job, etc. I felt like everyone could tell that I was freaking out on the inside, I was co...
- Tue Apr 03, 2012 7:26 pm
- Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
- Topic: anyone gotten over scary thoughts?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7053
Re: anyone gotten over scary thoughts?
Hi Bob, I havent' completely gotten over the obsessive scary thoughts, but I have had a few occasions where I was able to notice them when they were starting and prevent myself from getting sucked into them. I don't even know what was going on at the time to make me start obsessing, but I can rememb...
- Tue Apr 03, 2012 2:21 pm
- Forum: Triumphs
- Topic: Practicing assertiveness!!
- Replies: 3
- Views: 5936
Practicing assertiveness!!
Just wanted to share myself practicing some little assertiveness skills. I noticed at work how when any little mistake happens i over react internally, catastrophizing the consequences of the mistake, beating myself up and blaming myself for it. I process orders for a company and a customer needed o...
- Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:06 pm
- Forum: Participant Questions & Support
- Topic: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4117
Re: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
Ahh I don't know why it posted twice...
- Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:05 pm
- Forum: Participant Questions & Support
- Topic: i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4117
i just wish lucinda or carolyn could post!!
Hi everyone, I don't usually post in here, just read a lot of the posts. But I decided to post bc I'm having a hard time. (Even though I did have some small triumphs, which I will be posting in the triumph section after this :D ) Bla I've been having a difficult time lately. I'm listening to the pro...