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by Van Davis
Thu Oct 23, 2014 3:22 pm
Forum: Personal Coaching Program
Topic: Ask Coach Chris
Replies: 205
Views: 100570

Stimulant Insanity

Okay, let me try to get this all straight... 1) I went off tobacco August 24th successfully with only two slips. I have been on nicotine gum now for appx. 3 months with only 1 or 2 pieces per day occasionally since about 1 month ago. 2) I went off of espressos (about 4 per day) about one month later...
by Van Davis
Thu Sep 25, 2014 10:27 am
Forum: Depression
Topic: First time here, hoping for some postive friends.
Replies: 5
Views: 5010

Re: First time here, hoping for some postive friends.

Synny, You're in absolutely the right place by being in this program. I've been on anti-depressants since 1983 along with a host of other meds that I'm still taking, but I've been working the program for almost 6 weeks now and I'M STARTING TO SEE SOME LIGHT AGAIN LIKE I HAVEN'T EXPERIENCED SINCE BEF...
by Van Davis
Thu Sep 25, 2014 9:57 am
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: First expectation after Session 4 CD.
Replies: 7
Views: 6137

Re: First expectation after Session 4 CD.

One of my wxpectations that I struggle with is I expect recovery fast or sooner thn expected. I know it takes time but when I feel better and then have a day that I feel anxious I get upset that it's not working. Now I know this isn't rational but I worry about it. Keep up the good work, Chrismarie...
by Van Davis
Thu Sep 25, 2014 9:45 am
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: First expectation after Session 4 CD.
Replies: 7
Views: 6137

Re: First expectation after Session 4 CD.

One of my wxpectations that I struggle with is I expect recovery fast or sooner thn expected. I know it takes time but when I feel better and then have a day that I feel anxious I get upset that it's not working. Now I know this isn't rational but I worry about it. Keep up the good work, Chrismarie...
by Van Davis
Thu Sep 25, 2014 9:35 am
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: First expectation after Session 4 CD.
Replies: 7
Views: 6137

Re: First expectation after Session 4 CD.

Finishing up Week 6 and have conquered some issues concerning (1) fear and low self-esteem associated with anger in a situation I had to walk away from where a "friend" from almost 50 years ago was "pushing my buttons" and (2) too high expectations of myself which led to anger and depression in anot...
by Van Davis
Fri Sep 19, 2014 9:17 am
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: First expectation after Session 4 CD.
Replies: 7
Views: 6137

Re: First expectation after Session 4 CD.

I'm just finishing Session 5 now and things are getting better for me by using the breathing annd td self-talk and watching my diet (session 5) and just started an exercise program with a soccer ball on the end wall to my apt which is on a hill with levels at top and bottom. It's wonderful because a...
by Van Davis
Mon Sep 08, 2014 9:02 am
Forum: Session 4 - Expectations: How to Expect Less and Get More
Topic: First expectation after Session 4 CD.
Replies: 7
Views: 6137

First expectation after Session 4 CD.

The first expectation that I made up this week which caused some anxiety was that i was going to run into some trouble that i can't handle after listening to Session 4 cd for first time. A:Self talk. I am calm. I am peaceful. I am relaxed and i am resourceful. I will now listen to my relax cd. liste...