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by mtassinari
Tue May 27, 2014 8:01 pm
Forum: Session 1 - Anxiety and Depression: Symptoms, Causes and Common Fears
Topic: First week of program and in need of guidance
Replies: 3
Views: 4254

Re: First week of program and in need of guidance

Hi Yalmont, I know what you mean with the head tension, that is where I often hold a lot of my stress. I sometimes will add a couple face and head tensions/relaxations that I had heard in another relaxation tape if I am feeling a lot of tension there. You could also use your own tape as a supplement...
by mtassinari
Mon May 12, 2014 12:29 pm
Forum: Depression
Topic: The Guilt of Unhappiness
Replies: 2
Views: 3873

Re: The Guilt of Unhappiness

Hi mcconnellmad, I also experience a large amount of guilt over feelings of despair and depression. I too have a lot to be grateful for in my life, and I find that when I feel feel a wave of sadness or despair coming on (sometimes over something very small, and sometimes for no clear reason), the gu...
by mtassinari
Wed Apr 23, 2014 8:10 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: One Small Sucess One Large Dose Of Self Esteem
Replies: 8
Views: 6993

Re: One Small Sucess One Large Dose Of Self Esteem

Hi stilltrying, I also avoid conflict and I have trouble thinking straight when I get into a confrontation. What is really difficult is when the confrontation arises unexpectedly, I find myself just completely thrown and I scramble to de-escalate the confrontation, even if this means ignoring my own...
by mtassinari
Wed Apr 23, 2014 7:50 pm
Forum: Session 15 - Getting Beyond a Growth Spurt
Topic: Fearing a Growth Spurt
Replies: 2
Views: 4718

Re: Fearing a Growth Spurt

Hey well put feelingbetter! I also feel like my skills are not strong enough but I am starting to realize that growth spurts are the way to get stronger! I really like the stuff you wrote and I will keep it in mind the next time I hit a growth spurt.
by mtassinari
Wed Apr 23, 2014 7:35 pm
Forum: Session 14 - How to Keep Stress from Becoming Anxiety
Topic: How to figure what is bothering you?
Replies: 3
Views: 5556

Re: How to figure what is bothering you?

Thanks for the response Mike, sorry this is coming so late! It makes me feel better that someone else deals with this as well. I have struggled to express and process my emotions for as long as I can remember. To be honest, I don't remember anything unusual about the way my family responded to or pr...
by mtassinari
Wed Mar 19, 2014 10:26 pm
Forum: Session 14 - How to Keep Stress from Becoming Anxiety
Topic: How to figure what is bothering you?
Replies: 3
Views: 5556

How to figure what is bothering you?

Hello everyone, So I have been moving through the program slowly and I am now on session 14. The skills taught in the program have definitely helped me, although I certainly feel I have a long way to go. Recently what has been giving me the most trouble is identifying my feelings and why I am having...
by mtassinari
Sun Feb 09, 2014 9:45 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: One Small Sucess One Large Dose Of Self Esteem
Replies: 8
Views: 6993

Re: One Small Sucess One Large Dose Of Self Esteem

Hey guys, So I had an interesting experience recently, I went ice climbing with my friend from work. It's actually not as scary or dangerous as it might sound, but I was proud of myself for doing it! I had some physical symptoms on the way to the climbing location (mostly anticipation and what-if th...
by mtassinari
Sun Feb 09, 2014 9:17 pm
Forum: Session 3 - Self Talk: The Key to Healthy Self Esteem
Topic: Question about positive talk
Replies: 5
Views: 5257

Re: Question about positive talk

Mary B, I have also had many times when I had trouble thinking of positive replacements for my negative thoughts. Sometimes when I did come up with a replacement I found it hard to believe, as you describe. I think that just the act of writing down the negative thought and coming up with something m...
by mtassinari
Fri Jan 03, 2014 5:47 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: why do we have scary thoughts?
Replies: 3
Views: 4903

Re: why do we have scary thoughts?

Thanks coach21 for the detailed insight, I will probably be coming back to your post after/during an obsessive episode to keep things in perspective.
by mtassinari
Fri Jan 03, 2014 5:30 pm
Forum: Session 10 - How to Address Obsessive, Scary Thoughts
Topic: Need answers
Replies: 2
Views: 3725

Re: Need answers

Hi 1blessedg, I totally hear you with being frustrated as well as scared while having this condition. I have often thought, when in the middle of a bad episode, "this can't just be anxiety" It is amazing how powerful our brains are, I too have obsessed about "thinking myself crazy" (at one point aft...